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Beth leaves lights on downstairs must wander in the middle of the night except when I am working beth never turns off lights all hours of the day and night she leaves all the lights on downstairs  light lamp in living room should not be kept on 24 hours a day day after day might start a fire and uses up electricity uselessly there is a night light which is fairly bright in the dining room

do not want bv playing the codependent dysfunctional games she plays played with dennis on me started from the first testing me to see if i could counter her games do not want to be on high alert all the time to stop her jabbing and testing

Jessica said to apologize for calling beth a window washer do not want to let her use me as a substitude for dennis to play her dramas out.

bv inappropriately using med monitoring to play out silly dramas with me in a role i refuse to play.  BV is very clever at sudden attacks after being nice and if i call her on it goes back to be nice or if she has an audience in the RCs continues to play.  Rcs need to call her on it too not play into bv using me as a scapegoat.

Latch for cabinet for my art supplies.

Dennis or someone still calling throughout the day and hanging up before message machine comes on not as bad as it was but it is building dennis too tries to test to see what he can get away with. Dennis did not use the bathroom as the excuse bv gave for his coming in the house i was sitting at the table when he came in until he left a few minutes later after  sitting down at the table talking to me for a few minutes and melissa came in an mouthed to me, "What is he doing here?"  Don't think Dennis saw it but voluntarily left after a few minutes asking beth if she wanted to sit out on the front porch.



may thurs 3rd  Beth Vonieff complained to jessica at meds that i called her a window washer told Jessica that - when bv came home from wendy's and i came in door after cig bv said something that sounded like i washed the windows and i repeated you washed the windows? and bv laughed and said no she walked to wendy's jessica said bv must have thought about it and gotten angry - bv has been friendly but manner was very scary and cold and angry.  using me as a substitute again for her problems with boyfriend of 25 years dennis whom she seems to have made up with after her scary experiences with him incl his putting a butcher knife to her throat in Giant foods as he was buying the knife and pretending that he was joking.Bv said when she first mentioned it that she was afraid to see him again and pretty much indicated that her relationship with dennis was over.


Dennis is not allowed to call or visit our group home by the request of Melissa Willard our house mate and by the concensus of RCs. but bv visits him at his apartment and asked nicole why the rcs could not protect her from dennis when she went to visit him and nicole said that the rcs have no jurisdiction in his apartment but can ban him from St. Luke's group homes.

Dennis spent many weeks calling non-stop almost 24/7 and it was nearly impossible to make a call out which presented a danger if there were an emergency and dennis usually got off the line when I had to make a brief call but when I wanted to go to the grocery store and needed to call a cab he refused to get off the line unless I produced beth on the line to talk to him and I told him that I would no longer be at his beck and call since every day several times a day he would ask me to run upstairs downstairs to find beth or to wake her or drag her out of the shower or cross examine me if beth were out, where she had gone and when she would be back.  Amanda at my urging picked up the phone dennis was making his non-stop calls and she told him he had to stop calling and tying up the line and if beth were out he would just have to accept that.  Later Amanda said Dennis was not allowed to call at all and the phone calls stopped some days or were just a few and Amanda told bv to tell dennis that they could tell if he was calling by looking at the phone bill and he was not allowed to call at all though beth could call him.

Don't want to be a substitute for beth's anger at dennis and the fact that neither the rcs or I can turn dennis into the boyfriend she wants to treat her with respect and not scare her with a knife or other things or statements.

just before jessica came bv asked if she could take a cool bath in my bathroom since her bathroom in the basement only has a shower with a fine attachment for pulse, I said yes but did not sound like she filled the tub.  came down with only a skirt around chest which nicole has told bv in past that she did not know if that was appropriate attire for med monitoring meetings.

bv talking for long time to dennis in kitchen had trouble getting him off the line tho she promised to call him right away upstairs, melissa was cooking and i was making tea.  Beth usually attacks me at medication monitoring after being on the phone for hours with dennis.

May 5 -last night Melissa said that after complaining about dennis calling so much beth called him and was in kitchen when I went up to make food and Beth had a hard time getting dennis to wait for her to go upstairs to call him back.  Paula must have mentioned that I have a hard time concentrating on making a meal when Beth is on the phone to dennis talking loudly sometimes auguing for up to 8 hours a day - beth has a phone in her room.

need a bag or box for laundry usually socks lately blue underwear that no one claims so it doesn't sit on top of the dryer getting mixed in with peoples'wash.

bv a few days ago put her radio on top of my bookcase that i have a washcloth on to hold my art supplies.