After
calling Susan Wilkerson, leaving messages,4 times I was too
discouraged to try again. The year before Barrie Friedman's letter
after Grievance meeting in which we talked only of maintenance
issues, extreme heat and lack of air conditioning which was a minor
complaint I had thought it was a formal grievance and had pared down
36 pages of my grievance against the lack of help with Gerda's
abusing me to 8 - Sweta requested I cut it down myself and though
according to Grievance policy she or Susan wilkerson should have
helped me with written grievance, Barrie's letter mentioned only the
maintenance issue not gerda and stated if I wanted to make formal
complaint contact Susan Wilkerson also for Comar Notes SUSAN
WILKERSON (Wilkoff) HAS NEVER, EVER CALLED ME BACK and
I had requested a formal Grievance meeting about gerda not primarily
about maintenance but I was not allowed to speak, Sweta before
meeting printed 8 pages from my flash drive don't remember if Barrie
et al were given copy, nothing was done to give me relief or peggy
relief from Gerda's over the top harrassment.
A
year later want to complain about Beth's abuse, Susan Wilkerson
according to Grievance Policy was supposed to help with that she
would not call back.
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My
main complaint is about Barrie Friedman and Melissa Jacob Clayton's
criminal negligence don't want to sue, do want an investigation into
their not doing important portions of their job endangering clients
and neighbors. Peggy Wyss' formal complaint about Gerda's
harrassment of her, her aunt that she spoke to about abuse Peggy very
shy, her Aunt made sure that a representative from Dept. of Mental
Health was at meeting, Caryn Zaner told Peggy that she, Peggy, would
have to move, not the abuser Gerda, Gerda said "I get peggy's
room" but also showed Gerda she could get away with doing
anything to her housemates and nothing would be done to stop Gerda
and Gerda had an enormous power problem and anger at her mother and
sisters and used housemates as substitute scapegoats.
The
only reason why peggy was not forced to move was DMH rep said SLH had
to find peggy housing near enough to visit her mother in Kensington
Nursing Home and her aunt in DC but for a year after every
housemeeting Caryn Zaner would tell peggy she needed to continue
preparing to move and Peggy suffered the insecurity of that. Peggy
has friends at SLH Life Skills program and attends social night and
last part of art group, peggy did not miss even one Social night for
over a year and then only once because she was ill and attends other
activities which she would not have been able to do if Peggy had been
forced to move.
Laura
was so upset when she learned SLH would not be getting her own apt
but just dumping her in a room in the community, Laura died very soon
after she was told this and was so upset when she would call me.
Laura had been in SLH housing so long that the CSA inspector Howard
called her the Queen of SLH, Laura was very pleased and said "Aw,
I'm no queen." when she told me how pleased she was about
Howard's comment.
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Ask
someone from NAMI to witness provider meeting - previous 2 provider
and grievance meetings should have been recorded, unbelievable,
Barrie as Queen of Sheba,
RCs
should be logging everytime beth or in the past Gerda or any client
who shows extreme carelessness around stove and oven leaving kitchen
or even leaving house with oven on - when they are informed by other
client about the danger to HUD, St. Luke's housing, clients and
neighbors ATTENTION MUST BE PAID - why do all the RCs shrug it off as
one time happening when informed of repeated dangerous behavior
around fires - have they been instructed by Melissa Jacob Clayton not
to care or to minimize real danger out of existence - MJ's job is to
both know these things, investigate and take action to protect
clients, houses, neighbors and program for independent living in the
community. Halfway houses are looked down on with fear and maybe the
knowledge that some supervisor don't care to do anything at all about
the worst danger is known. Gerda chasing away neighbors with her
screaming which echoed down the back corridor of trees, deck/porch in
back, client screaming for months and years minimized by MJ when Dr.
Parveen opened door where MJ and my then RC Amanda Tillman were
meeting after RC meeting across hall, Dr. P told me to tell them as
soon as the words were out of my month "It's a zoo, the second
neighbors on the other side have moved out." MJ's knee-jerk
reaction was "Just because the neighbors have moved out doesn't
mean it is because of Gerda." I told Sweta when meeting on deck
with Gerda screaming upstairs echoing outside that neighbors used to
move out when my mother would scream like that and we would be asked
to leave nice garden apartments. By the time I said this to MJ, all
the RCs could hear Gerda screaming upstairs, for months, she refused
to come down for medications and I would beg the RCs to do something
and they would make some excuse and the screaming of Gerda and other
terrible behavior went on with no one intervening, the reason for the
17 meetings per month is not just to get paid but to notice and
intervene if something is radically wrong.
Why
was nothing done about Gerda?
Never
double checked with me about the lies Gerda told and Dr. P opened
door to say I slept during the day and worked on my computer at night
because Gerda screamed every hour she was awake at that time, Gerda
had complained I slept all the time from the beginning, Gerda and
Beth expect me to be a live-in housemother, if a client is not ready
for independence and careless repeated around stove is one big clue
they should be in an environment with 16 or 24 hour care, at least
out patient hospitalization so don't harrass housemates and neighbors
and maybe get some help.
Beth
sweeping neighbor's deck, trespassing, said it was an eyesore,
trespassing. Energy should have been spent on doing her chores in
house not uninvited sweeping of neighbor's deck insulting them with
eyesore remark when I told her she was trespassing and to please
stop.
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Beth's
misuse of medication monitoring and housemeetings to nitpick about
nothing beth needs to write down complaints so she isn't all over the
map confusing everyone but attacking me and confusing and boring RCs
so much beth is allowed to continue to attack me in front of an
audience over nothing or for things she does herself she lies
straightfaced and accuses me of dirtying dishes she has used and left
with an inch of water and disgusting watered down mayo and salad
dressing and pancake mix and clam chowder left to dry on top of dish,
bowl or pan for days. After she threw away the house owned pot
holder, Melissa Willard heard her tell Nicole that I had thrown it
away. I thought since beth is known for throwing good things away,
that someone would try to stop her but she continues.
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Freda
Lawrence game
Letting
Beth beat up on me so she will feel better for a few minutes is not
benefitting Beth who uses these destructive games to avoid finding
something useful to do with her life even a hobby or since she is
more of a people person, to visit Southport Life Skills, I exchanged
laundry days with her from Tuesday to Wed when Beth briefly was going
to an activity on Tuesday.
Chat
with cab driver, cannot spend all my time caring for Beth being her
24/7 caretaker, scapegoat, companion, family substitute, second
Dennis for a second extravagantly dysfunctional relationship. Tired
of being treated like a doll that has no feelings, beth cares
exclusively for herself, does not care when I try to back her off her
abuse and harrassment by telling her how ill I am, or telling her in
housemeeting that I am a human being too. Beth exploits everyone
around her but esp. housemates who can't get away after 15 minutes or
at most an hour for Beth's power needs. Two kinds of power the power
to do something to create something and the power to dominate other
people, despite Beth's babychild act, Beth's real artform, what she
has dedicated her life too is creating incredible problems including
making the smooth running of a house impossible. Constantly throwing
a spanner in the works then laughing with delight at the problems she
has caused.
Breaks
everyone of the ten commandments every day Satan is only come to
kill, and steal and destroy.
Bearing
false witness, misusing medication monitoring to tell lies about me
to use RCs as an audience to repeatedly win symbolic victories over
her siblings and parents - like being in hell a hamster cage going
around endlessly in circles beth is not the only one who has suffered
severely in life though her only dedication in life is repeat
dysfunctional family issues forever exploiting and destroying her
housemates and sometimes RCs beth has declared war on the world
despite her very skilled helpless act. Instead of moving beyond and
trying to find something worthwhile to do with her life she piddle
with art and other activities but is voracious in Troublemaking. RCs
find her too skilled at diversionary and other tactics and so let her
do what she wants even to risking her own life, her housemates lives
and the lives of neighbors and independent living which most people
call halfway houses because Melissa Jacob Clayton does not do her
job.
Needs
a whole team working with dedication to stop strong-willed trouble
makers like beth and gerda, what is all the training of RCs for if
they only say "That's just Gerda being Gerda." or that I
have to be independent and confront Beth hourly BY MYSELF WITH NO
SUPPORT FOR HER CONSTANT SKILLED HARRASSMENT OF HOUSEMATES AND
DESTOYING SMOOTH RUNNING OF HOUSE BY HER THEIVING OF HOUSEHOLD
SUPPLIES AND OTHER EXTENSIVE GAMES.
nEED
TO KEEP A LOG AND rcS HOULD BE DOING THIS NOT ME ALONE OF bETH'S
LEAVING STOVE OVEN ON AND abusive "Mother-in-Law" behoviour
and other very destructive abuse and thefts and bearing false
withness lies complicated lies about housemates like the office
trouble maker if you want an example.
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won't
allow anymore of my time and life and talents and hard work to be
wasted by someone who thinks it's cute to steal and lie and bear
false witness, break all of the 10 commandments every day. I won't
keep silent any more about Beth's provacations and carelessness or
suicidal behavior in walking away from leaving the stove and oven on,
even leaving the house with oven on. If someone cannot be trusted
around a stove who has the judgement of a toddler it is not kind to
her or responsible to housemates and neighbors to keep silent.
The
more I or Dr. Parveen or Rcs ask beth to stop a destructive behavior
the more she will do it - disgusting to see on the face of a 55 year
old woman the smirks of a toddler who thinks it is being
mischieviously naughty - the practical judgement of a toddler given
free access to stove burners after repeatedly leaving them on and
walking away.
not
supposed to be a supervisor ordering people around but taking a real
interest in my career not just your own.
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how
does it help beth or gerda to let them abuse housemates does it make
them happier or more functional cheating them as well by not paying
attention and doing job paid to do.
now
is time to be buying oil for lamps this oil you can't steal read the
parable redeeming the time for the days are evil work while it is
light because the night cometh when no one can work.
trash
and throw away everything God gives you, or people sacrifice to give
you you know the worth, the value of nothing like a child hitting a
doll on the counter other people are not real to beth the strange
writing butting her relates everything to herself like an infant
other people don't exist except insofar as beth can thinkof someway
to exploit them however much pain she causes doesn't want the things
she steals but only to cause pain difficulties to others power motive
throws away things she steals
Jan
11 Beth came home after grocery shopping with Christina, Beth opened
a can of green beans and a can of corn, put them in a pot and walked
out of kitchen, when I went out for a cigarette I called to her, told
her she had left the kitchen with the food heating on 4, asked where
she was, called to her up the stairs, no answer, I turned off the
burner Beth left on and went out for cigarette, she came down a few
minutes after I came in from having cigarette, told Beth she had left
burner on and shouldn't leave kitchen with something cooking, she
didn't answer.
Bonnie
witnessed when first moved in Beth came back from bus stop after she
had left oven on low to defrost foil wrapped chicken, I had turned
off oven because I was leaving house with Bonnie and knew beth had
gone to bus stop but she left before I noticed oven was on. Bonnie
was flabbergasted then and weeks later when she remember it but told
Bonnie that Gerda had constant mishaps with stove and RCs said time
after time that it was only an accident, one time occurrence that
could happen to anyone. Ask fire dept if independent living homes
have higher rate of fires - if can't be trusted around the stove/oven
should not be in independent living beth and gerda risking their own
lives, lives of housemates and neighbors. Ask NAMI their opinion and
if they have knowledge of this negligance in other indepent living
situations as well. need kitchen safety material videos, going
outside on one floor only once a month testing fire alarm is not
enough. Why don't RCs take note of how many times one client is seen,
rescued from leaving oven/stove burners on after have left kitchen.
BV's
attempts to making me feel unwelcome in my own home to
the point of locking me out when
go out for a cigarette. she knows I ALWAYS use the middle steel bar
AND the steel pipe at the bottom of the sliding doors when I come in
from smoking and had been talking to her a few minutes before she
started barring the door so that I could not come back in my own
house.
I
have to bend down to place the steel pipe at the bottom of sliding
doors and to get my food on the bottom shelf of refrigerator, and to
sweep kitchen floor other than that I do not know what she means that
I am always "Butting" people, as she wrote that I was
always bending down showing my butt to people?
henpecking
in kitchen about minor things
misusing
medication meetings to try to pick fights about ridiculous things
saying I called her a window washer which BV said is well know code
word for prostitute, therefore, I called her a prostitute. I did not
even call her a window washer, she said she had gone to Wendy's she
inititated conversation I misheard and said "Oh, you washed the
windows." thinking she would want to show me some extra chores
she had done which I take the time to look at when she tells me what
she has done and admire. BV really stretches to provoke fights over
nothing which she is skilled at after 27 years of very dysfunctional
relationship with her boyfriend Dennis. I do not want to be a second
Dennis in her life to waste time on silly arguements then making up
do not want to waste time on these useless dramas. Dennis should be
enough of a drama making opportunity for BV.
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bv
nag
STEALING
IS BREAKING OF TRUST -
THOU SHALT NOT STEAL nor take anything that is thy neighbors - Beth
destroys my reputation as well and kills hope.
Rehabilitation
Coordinators say their hands are tied in stopping Beth from stealing
and abusing housemates, why is St. Luke's House Residential Program
hand-tied from stopping a client who has caused anguish to her
housemates for many, many years from doing anything at all. Stealing
is against the law, if Beth had to face a prosecution for petty theft
would she continue. Why does the supervisor of Peppertree/Bel Pre
cluster have so few skills in dealing with problems that must come up
in other SLH and THRESHOLD residences??
Do
other St. Luke's House Cluster supervisors say their hands are tied
when
a client habitually interferes with the recovery or even being left
in peace of other clients? Beth's utter lack of respect for the
property or privacy of her housemates which so far has been mostly
unchecked by the strangely impotent psychology majors who are given
the title REHABILITATION COORDINATORS used to be COUNSELORS but when
asked for a copy of their job description years ago, I was told I was
not entitled to have a copy, perhaps the DMH and Congressman Van
Hollen and the County Council are entitled to Melissa Jacob Clayton
and Barrie Friedman's job descriptions and upon investigation and
questioning clients whose complaints have been ignored whether or not
the requirements of the jobs of BF and MJC are being even minimally
met and the destruction of clients emotionally, physically and the
talents they have developed wasted by allowing bullying and abuse and
blockading of common areas to continue unchecked.
Beth
nags almost constantly, not only makes mountain of molehill, most of
the time creates the molehill as well.
Bonnie
had never mentioned her mother-in law before but recently, when I
told her Beth
is like living with the MOTHER-IN-LAW FROM THE DEEPEST PIT OF HELL.
Bonnie, who is 70 years old immediately went into the pain of what
the archetypal mother-in-law abusing power causes - Bonnie said
before her son was born her mother-in-law would call telling her how
to raise him and that when her husband would leave for work, her
mother-in-law would call and abuse and belittle Bonnie for hours who
did not want to cause trouble with a new marriage and baby on the way
but finally refused to take calls from her mother-in-law.
The
next time we talked when I mentioned it, Bonnie started to talk about
the pain of her mother-in-laws abuse, then was so upset after 50
years, said I
can't talk about it
and I said how would you have liked to live 24/7 with your
mother-in-law in the same house and Bonnie said very seriously, "I
don't think I would have made it." We were talking about my
difficulty in doing any of my art except on the computer, Bonnie
asked if I were having problems with my eyes as I did with the
Sphenoidal Sinus Infection years ago and I said no but I am frozen in
fear by what Beth will say or do to me next and always having to be
on guard and come up with an instanteous response to her shoving
toenail clippers in my eye when I am trying to concentrate on work,
or incessant 8-12 talking with her boyfriend that she will not take
upstairs because she wants to monopolize the kitchen and force me to
be an audience to her and Dennis' fights, partying, kiss and make up
hour after hour after hour day after day after day after week after
month how can you convey this to another person who has not
experienced it??
Not
often mentioned but there was a
Washington Post article
saying not
all women do this there
are true victims who have not provoked their boyfriends or husbands
- not to blame women for their own abuse but women are generally more
articulate than men and nagging belittling and berating a man you are
jeopardizing your physical safety and need to think about that and
consider if what you get from nagging is worth the risk.
Why
do (mostly) women nag?
IT IS AN ACT OF EXTREME AGGRESSION out
of unhappiness, women wanting their will to be done instead of
considering others needs and trying to compromise and work at win/win
situations, power urge satisfaction - reliving childhood issues -
Beth
may have been a victim in her family or from others but she is not my
victim though
I haven't until recently responded to her outrageous provocations,
like the Gulf of Tonkin incident Beth
pretends I am the aggressor and
since she can tell a somewhat amusing tale or is more aggressive in
demanding audiences for her lies the medication monitoring and up
until recently housemeetings
are a joke of an audience for Beth's sick dramas which
all these psychology majors feed into maybe because it is easier and
less time consuming and Beth and Gerda had immensely strong wills to
get their own way and use everyone they can in their perpetual boring
cycle of drama instead of doing something useful with their lives
which is rarely encouraged by RCs but they eat up Beth's incessant
dramatics.
All
are true of Beth and what I have most marked is Beth's refusal to
consider any solutions, partial solutions win/win situations because
her CONSTANT ACTS OF EXTREME HOSTILITY AND NAGGING IS HER WHOLE LIFE
- she doesn't want to be regimented, she hates schedules, or crying
or getting huffy, or talking to herself angrily or stalking off into
kitchen - so many useless dramas and the RCs allow her to do it and
it is obvious that possible real solutions are not allowed by MJC in
the gossip fests she calls team meetings and MJC's utter incompetence
shows and destroys lives of clients. Until recently when I finally
said and was very serious about writing grievance as best I could to
Congressman Van Hollen and the County Council and McClatchy
newspapers, MJC has shown no signs of wanting grow into her job but
like Barrie just to order people around from Mt. Olympus where
consulting the people affected so called clients wouldn't occur to
her and if it did she would not consider any ideas from the plebs to
be worth a minute of her time.
Nagging
is an act of extreme aggression particularly if you live with someone
24/7 and can't get away and the nagging person is deliberately
provoking tears of rage and has done it all her life - Beth's 50 some
years of disgustingly immoral actions and then she hides behind
an"I'm
a helpless little baby." "I'm mentally ill, what do you
expect." if
you try to discuss it dispassionately with her how she is hurting you
every day.
Dennis'
extreme dependence did not come out of nowhere - Beth loves it when
he finally acts out pushing a coffee table against her knees brusing
them or the butcher knife Beth can gain an audience to feel sorry for
her after provoking this response - see the way Yoko Ono destroyed
John Lennon - how
do I know? because I have experienced Beth's nagging, lies, vicious
verbal attacks and dirty tricks and thefts and abuse and insults
every day for a year and a half, some of it witnessed by medication
monitoring REHABILITATION COORDINATORS who have the strangest
responses to clear-cut abuse - when they first start have normal
response then become stepford wives and Dr. Parveen and Paula Weiss
and Megan have normal responses - need an investigator from DMH and
NAMI to see if they agree with the hard but not
impossible to verify decisions
and actions and mostly INACTION by Melissa Jacob Clayon and her
"team" of yes-women.
Beth
punched holes in the wall I had put up against her evil provacations
which took me so much energy to maintain that I could not do my art
or even think wondering
when and how Beth would attack me next. - Ask Kimberly and Waterside
Cluster RCs and clients what Beth did to them in three weeks to
provoke tears of rage.
No
one to help stop this abuse, though Beth is known for stealing, she
denies stealing my art supplies, purple jacket, drinking glass, etc.
etc and i just have to take the lose, since despite Beth's long
history of stealing and throwing away mostly food items, since I
shared my food with her she knew she could only hurt me by taking
other things, esp. art supplies that i am currently working with,
come back and they are gone, Beth denies it and so it goes on and on
and on. Christina said we could go through the trash next time my
art supplies go missing, haven't felt like clawing through the trash
for the two missing medium size cooking pots.
I
could expect more help, concern and interest from a stranger I
stopped on the street than the 50 odd medication meetings - if the
stranger walked away refusing to listen it would be no different from
what these REHABILITATION COORDINATORS HAVE DONE TO ME LEAVING ME
HOLDING THE 50 YEAR OLD SPOILED BRAT BABY WHEN SHE ISN'T PLAYING THE
MOTHER-IN-LAW FROM HELL.
AFTER
WATERSIDE CLUSTER DUMPED THE FOUNDLING BACK ON MY FRONT PORCH WERE
NOT ABOUT TO LET MELISSA JACOB CLAYTON DUMP HER PROBLEM CHILD ON THEM
AND DESTROY THE CHANCES OF CLIENTS INTERESTED IN WORKING ON RECOVER
OR CAUSING RCS TO QUIT FROM Beth'S SKILLED ABUSE - CHRISTINA, IN ONE
OF MJC'S DISASTEROUS DECISIONS IN HER TEAM MEETING, THROUGH
CHRISTINA, MJC TOLD ME BEL PRE CLIENTS WERE SUPPOSED TO BE
INDEPENDENT SO IT WAS INCUMBENT ON ME TO TALK TO Beth AND WORK OUT
PROBLEMS.
THIS
IS SO OUTRAGEOUS I WILL DIRECT THE MENTAL HEALTH INVESTIGATOR TO
WATERSIDE CLUSTER RC SUPERVISOR TO FIND OUT WHAT Beth DID TO CAUSE
TEARS OF RAGE AND UNANNOUNCED AND UNCEREMONIOUS DUMPING OF Beth BACK
ON OUR DOORSTEP WITH THE RC WHO DELIVERED Beth BACK TO LOOK AS
FURIOUS AS ANYONE I HAVE EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE AND I AM SUPPOSED TO
DEAL WITH Beth ALONE??
I
HAVE BEEN ALL ALONG BUT THIS WAS MJC'S RESPONSE IN HER USUAL
PASS-THE-BUCK STYLE - mjc could consult with experienced therapists
like Paula instead of going with any hare-brained idea that occurrs
to her and causes endless anguish and permanent damage to the people
she is supposed to be and getting a supervisor's salary to help not
hurt by her unfathomable decisions and mostly inaction.
SINCE
THE PEPPERTREE/BEL
PRE SUPERVISOR AND
HER MANAGER BELIEVE IN A WEIRD FAVORITISM AND WILL DO NOTHING TO
PROTECT CLIENTS FROM SEVERE EMOTIONAL ABUSE, IN ORDER TO STOP
Beth VONIEFF FROM
CONTINUING TO DESTROY ME AS A PERSON MUST GO TO MY CONGRESSMAN AND
THE COUNTY COUNCIL AND ASK THEM TO OVERSEE A THOROUGH INVESTIGATION
BY THE DEPT. OF MENTAL HEALTH INTO HOW MANY PEOPLE MJC AND BF HAVE
ALLOWED TO BE DESTROYED BY NOT DOING GRIEVANCE MEETINGS TO HEAD OFF
THE ABUSE BECOMING PHYSICAL AND LOOK INTO SUSAN WILKOFF REFUSING TO
DO HER JOB BY NOT CALLING BACK FOR 3 YEARS REQUESTS IN HER PERVIEW
FOR COMAR NOTES, ADDENDUMS TO GROSSLY FAULTY TREATMENT PLANS THAT ARE
REALLY CHARACTER ASSASSINATIONS AND REFUSAL TO HELP CLIENTS WORD
GRIEVANCES AS WAS REQUIRED BY THE PREVIOUS ST. LUKE'S HOUSE GRIEVANCE
POLICY WHICH IS A JOKE AND A LIE - MS.
WILCOFF IS
NOT REQUIRED TO HELP CLIENTS UNDER THE
THRESHOLD UNITED GRIEVANCE POLICY SO
I GUESS MS WILCOFF GETS A FREE PASS FROM ALL THE SUFFERING SHE CAUSED
BY STEADFASTLY REFUSING TO DO THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF HER JOB.
CHEATING
CLIENTS, THE FUNDERS INCLUDING THE GOVERNMENT AND MENTAL HEALTH IN
GENERAL BY ALLOWING
CLIENTS LIKE Gerda TO SCREAM THE NEIGHBORHOOD DOWN AND
CLIENTS WITH SKILLS THEY HAVE DEVELOPED OVER YEARS TO BE TERRORIZED
AND ABUSED EMOTIONALLY BY AGGRESSIVE CLIENTS LIKE Gerda SEJOUR AND
Beth VONIEFF - MOSTLY BF AND MJC TURN THEIR HEAD FROM THE ABUSE AND
REQUIRE THEIR REHABILITATION COORDINATORS TO DO THE SAME. WOULD GET
MORE CONCERN FROM A STRANGER I STOPPED IN THE STREET THAT FROM THE
TWICE DAILY MEDICATION MONITORING VISITS BY RCS who don't care and
give off the wall answers to the grossest most dangerous kind of
abuse and carelessness.
mjc
apparently sees clients as pit bulls or fighting cock and puts us in
the ring to let darwinism take place - and wants the rcs to see us as
non-human too and yet responsible for our fate with
no help from people being paid to make sure one client is not
bullying, threatening or blocking common access area of privately and
government funded housing - no sense of fairness - no sense at all,
people rcs who wasted time and money on training in psychology which
they are not allowed to use or else all that training left them
clueless in the face of Gerda and Beth's sibling rivalry acts which
cause such immense damage which these psychology majors are
apparently too DENSE TO SEE OR INTIMIDATED TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT. At
least MJC doesn't have the Rehabilitation Coordinators put metal
spurs on like they do fighting cock.
nicole
said when she left that the new threshold people had been on the job
less than a year "FRESH MEAT FOR YOU ALL." are the last
word Nicole Hester spoke to me before leaving - Beth and Gerda have
been the aggressors 100% of the time
Thou
shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor
which
is not talking about a single lie but a group of lies to weave a web
or set a snare for innocent human beings in an important and usually
legal context - i have only occasionally tried to point out Beth and
Gerda's aggression and have rarely responded to provocations which
both Beth and Gerda complained as "ignoring" them because i
would walk away from their insults about my butt among other things
and they were trying to get the parent figure rcs to force me into
shouting dysfunction games/relationship why do not psychology majors
know this and refuse to feed into the time-wasting emotion-wasting
talent-wasting money-wasting games - mjc must rule with an iron hand
because she does not solicit or accept any ideas that might help
ameliorate these situations ideas from her yes-women and clients but
comes up with weird ass ideas and forces rcs to implement them AND
THEY ARE AN ENDLESS DISASTER DESTROYING CLIENTS INCLUDING AGRESSOR
CLIENTS LIKE Beth VONIEFF AND Gerda SEJOUR BY LETTING THEM RUN WILD
IN THE WORST SIDE OF THEIR NATURE INSTEAD OF THE MORE TIME CONSUMING
EFFORTS TO GET THEM TO DO SOMETHING MORE WITH THEIR DAYS THAN STALK
AND LIE AND SET SNARES FOR HOUSEMATES WHOM THEY HAVE BEEN GIVEN A
FREE HAND TO ABUSE AND WIN ENDLESS SYMBOLIC VICTORIES OVER THEIR MORE
FAVORED CHILD AND THEREFORE SUCCESSFUL SIBLINGS - thereby destroying
clients who want to recover and contribute something positive. MJC
and BF have been in dereliction of duty for a long time, most
important part of their job, client safety and neighbors safety they
have "no time for"
CLIENTS IN IMMEDIATE DANGER BECAUSE OF hundreds of clients but if
some clients are in immediate danger from one client with voices
threatening another client and spraying lysol in food they NEED TO
MAKE TIME.
There
are experienced managers and supervisors from the layoffs at
Threshold and other places who could step into Melissa Jacob Clayton
and Barrie Friedman's jobs who could may find the time to put
together and effective team to head off some of these problems and
who would MAKE THE TIME IF A CLIENT IS BEING THREATENED BY ANOTHER
CLIENT WITH A HISTORY OF VERBALLY ABUSING OTHER CLIENTS WHO HAS BEEN
SCREAMING FOR MONTHS DURING MEDICATION MONITORING AND WHO WROTE ABOUT
HER VIOLENCE IN A STORY CALLED "SISTERS" WHICH Gerda TRIED
TO GET EVERYONE TO READ AND PROOF-READ FOR HER AND WHICH WAS A CRY
FOR HELP. CARYN ZANER AND MEGAN STARTED PROOFING IT UNTIL IT GOT
INCOHERENT IN THE SANDRA STALKING OF UNCLE VINCENT - Gerda
TOLD ME SHE WAS SANDRA AND
NO ONE WOULD LISTEN WHEN I BEGGED THE VISITING MEDICATION MONITORING
REHABILITATION COORDINATORS TO HELP Gerda WHEN SHE WAS SCREAMING
UPSTAIRS FOR MONTHS AND REFUSING TO COME DOWN.
Gerda
used to tell me how she acted when she got really sick, as she was
screaming upstairs tried to tell the RCs but they ignored me or cut
me off when I tried to tell them so Gerda continued stalking me all
over the house, and yelling and cursing outside the door to the
basement where I was trying to get away from her screaming and
stomping all over the house in her boot or thick, heavy hard plastic
clogs.
CARYN
ZANER, RC,
SAID after she quit and was too bitter to stay the second week Caryn
said she might stay, JUST BEFORE SHE LEFT WITH Gerda SCREAMING
UPSTAIRS the
whole time,
that she had some friends who always complained that a housemate
would spend a half hour in the bathroom every morning and sound like
Felix Unger of the Odd Couple, honking and clearing his sinuses, once
she crashed with them and was awoken by this man making the noises
her friends said and she
indicated Gerda upstairs screaming at the top of her lungs and
said for a short time it is nothing but if I had to listen to it all
day long that would be different.
I
used to think the REHABILITATION COORDINATORS only had to listen to
Gerda screaming at the top of her lungs to her imaginary voices for
15 minutes while Peggy and I AND THE NEIGHBORS had to listen to it
for hour after hour - day after day. Why didn't anyone do anything
to help Gerda and the rest of us? MJC runs her cluster like a very
dysfunctional family and whatever her motivation for doing these
strange things enough can be investigated and verified. The clients
at St. Luke's Threshold United deserve much better than this malign
neglect and a few disasterous decision in the few cases MJC is
proactive in dealing with problems that her job description must
include but she neglects to the suffering of the people she is being
paid to serve.
Melissa
Willard asked
why I didn't call 911 and a few times I almost did but Gerda may have
come down, been charming, then after the police left started
screaming again like she used to do in charming RCs during med
meetings but the minute the door shut started talking to herself and
gearing up for screaming. Don't know why the neighbors never called
911, they voted with their feet and left. Some of the looks given me
by the neighbors on the right from the time I moved in, never even
said Hello, they must have thought I was the one doing the screaming
but when I was outside having a cigarette Gerda would be screaming
sound carrying out the back-facing bedroom and echoing down the
corridor of trees and fence.
MJC
starving Beth by HAVING THE RCs illegally confiscating Beth's.r SNAP
card would not have happened if MJC had a coherent plan with all
members of HER TEAM working in concert to stop the abuse of one
client by another instead of THAT IS JUST Gerda BEING Gerda as if mjc
believed Gerda's claims to be Jehovah God and therefore beyond house
rules, SLH rules OR ANY RULES OF HUMAN DECENCY FOR YEARS, FOR YEARS
MS. JACOB COULD HAVE FOUND TIME THERE WAS A BUILD UP EVEN BEFORE I
CAME TO Gerda'S DESPAIR AT TRYING TO KILL HOUSEMATES HER WRITING her
short novel SISTERS
WHICH
PAULA HAD DOWNLOADED MY WRITING ON Gerda'S SISTERS NOVEL BUT MJC HAD
SNIDELY MARGINALIZED PAULA WEISS, WHO CARES ABOUT CLIENTS AND THAT
WAS APPARENT WHEN MJC PUT BLOCKADES FOR A YEAR AGAINST MY SEEING OR
TALKING TO WHAT WAS THEN THE TEAM THERAPIST.
What
Gossips Do.
D.H.
Lawrence lost a lot of friends including wealthy, influential friends
by using them as characters in his novels and giving them very
negative characteristics. Someone wrote that DHL had a trick of being
able to capture in words the outward aspect of his acquaintances,
their gestures, appearance and putting "an
ectoplasm of his own creation." in
this outward description of them. In WOMEN IN LOVE, he gave the
character Ursala, based on his then new wife, Frieda, all her good
characteristics - to her delight and scattered her bad
characteristics among the other female characters.
This
is what gossips do. Why
was I criticized in Melissa Jacob Clayton's Peppertree "TEAM"
meetings for never going to Southport when I at that time went more
often than Gerda who hardly ever went but Gerda's not going to Life
Skills was ignored?
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