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Letter to Senate Appropriates Lack of Oversight of Montgomery County Mental Health Residences at Cornerstone
believe that Cornerstone Montgomery has a lobbyist. They might do something to make sure that that money is spent appropriately to help clients.
There have been many articles in the past few years about the lack of oversight of Group Homes and Psychiatric Residences and some of the massive Medicaid fraud.https://wordpress.com/view/cornerstonemontgomeryblog.wordpress.com
CORNERSTONE MONTGOMERY – 7 Year Report
More of 9 years of abuse, fraud and mismanagement at https://lydiagorbik.blogspot.com/
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Filing Another Useless Grievance Against Cornerstone Montgomery aka St. Lukes aka Threshold – no oversite Whatever in agency or out
The most immediately dangerous things to patients at Norbeck including Keith (not Keith Ellis, supv but a client who is in his 20s and warehoused) who has for months, at times, shaved his head, when he does their are huge, bloody gouges, this is not done with a safety razor, Keith talks to his voices every single day most of the day and like most of the 8 clients here other than doctor visits is ignored. For the second time in the last few weeks I badly rebroke a blood vessel in my left eye, even my Primary Care Physician Dr. Polem a few days ago was so worried about it she asked an eye doctor next door who does not take Medicaid and Dr. Solomon’s office was concerned that Medicare would not pay though my eye was so badly bleeding from the pressure I have been under for 9 years now.
My roommate in my divided bedroom with only 5 feet across to partitian Esther screams some days and nights almost constantly, she is in a choir and so has a powerful voice, it is hard enough living in a house with someone screaming at te top of their lungs at their voices saying “Get away, Get away” the meds don’t seem to work very well I have had a lot of compassion on my mother and housemates but I am utterly worn out and is why I almost died when at Holy Cross Hospital in September with a dangerously low blood pressure from this extreme stress even before the forced move into this lower circle of hell with warehoused sick people who de-serve compassion and more attention or at least enough sanitary kitchen supplies to cook meals.
Esther is about 30 years old, 6 feet tall and morbidly obese, when she walks rapidly down halls is often so angry she doesn't see where she is going - I am 65 years old with a cane and low bone density, I hug the walls when I see her coming but she is so large does minimal good against being knocked against and almost falling. When she comes in our small room angrily thrusts open the door high velocity and if I don't hear her coming almost knocked down.
I could have done something with my life and my art and tried every single day for 9 years to do my art or at least digital paintings when my supplies would be stolen if I got up or housemates would do worse things to me. Anyone who cares about mental health patients and the homeless should take a look at the huge waste of money and the partying, not by the therapist and psychiatrists who did not like their work undone but the absentee landlord Nicole Burke, Keith Ellis and others in the residential program plus the outrageous and constant bullying by Keith Ellis including mockery of very sick patients coming to the Bel Pre office for meds and witnessed and commented on by Jeanne and Debbie Davis and others who were capable of making complaints but they and their therapists and psychiatrists have been ignored for years and years and the good workers have been and are being pushed out in the purge that started a year ago.
My eyes are so blurry I don’t know if I will be able to do art again. My eyeglasses are scratched and 6 years old and online the only perk for turning 65 years old was supposed to be a free eye exam, Dr. Solomon’s receptionist said no free eye exams by us. I asked Terry Reid the benefits specialist last winter before I turned 65 to check into it, usually she has been one of the very few employees who do their job well but she has not gotten back to me.
When Keith, (not Keith Ellis supevisor in name only of Bel Pre but one of the clients at Norbeck House) started acting really violent last week there was only one tiny new part-time person who said that the Crises Center had no room for Keith but would have the following day. This crises did not come on suddenly Keith has been badly gouging his face shaving for days before this crises. Per instructions on the wall I called the now defunct Chadwhik House and left a message which has yet to be returned. Crises Center said it wasn’t their job and to call 911. I called the police non-emergency number and asked what would happen if an officer came out and Keith refused to go with them, the woman on the line said it would depend on how he reacted to the officer but that they could not make him leave.
Other people in the house expressed fear and the little girl at the desk said she agreed that there should be two people at the desk especially when a young clients starts acting violently, but the on-call supervisor Snyder apparently didn’t and that Julianna was not on-call.
I had thought when I was forced here ostensibly because of short term oxygen use that there were supposed to be 2 people at all times at the desks in the middle of the house built for 6 clients but holding 8. And that the men were supposed to be on one side and the women on the other. My housemate Esther has complained repeatedly about Keith coming in our room to ask for cigarettes or to use something of mine, he is lonely but I have never invited him into my room and they had promised Esther told to me by Alex Smith that they would put a lock on our bedroom door, that was weeks ago yet to be done.
It is hard for me to cook because Keith is in his 20s very restless should be in some kind of basketball or softball group. Cornerstone st lukes house used to have many party type events for 20 somethings but never any sports and nothing special for the majority of clients who are senior citizen age or close to it. If I try to spend 20 minutes attempting to cook a rice or pasta dish Keith walks through the whole house CONTINUALLY and will walk through the small kitchen in a fast angry way talking to his voices about a hundred times in a 20 minute period and will stare at me while I eat. Esther has gotten into several fights with Keith for his staring. I subsist on bread peanut butter sandwhiches Ensure when I can afford it and yoghurt and juice if it is not stolen. Even though there is a locked refrigerator even before being broken for the past several weeks staff would leave it open for hours or days and much of my food was stolen. My orange juice is now spoiled because I keep as much as possible in the tiny locked cabinet alloted to us because I cannot afford to buy twice the amount of food when it is constantly stolen and the staff tells me it is my tough luck even though they have cameras trained on the kitchen and real time screens of what is going on they are too busy watching youtube or socializing with each other not the so-called clients.
People get paid to do oversight at Cornerstone, Core Service Agency, and Department of Health and Human Services -good old boy and good old girl network-and they go on their vacations, have beautiful homes and cars get to go home at night and weekends while clients fend as best they can from housemates acting out – people who never do what they are paid to do and the mess that I have written about here and at Lydia Gorbik blogspot for almost 10 years just gets worse and worse. Are they any citizen groups who care or would get involved NAMI is useless as far as getting involved on any level whatever, defending real clients from real abuse or being able to refer to Disability protection Agencies there don’t seen to be any in Maryland.
Less sick clients must act as housemother to ones who are dangerous screaming down the neighborhoods going off to the bus leaving the stove on – this was at bel pre but their is plenty of utter neglect at Norbeck House as well. Why did Chadwick house burn down? I have been told for months that it would reopen when the fire dept said it was safe. Is there any oversight agency who cares enough to look at the Fire Department reports as to why Chadwick house burned down with the smoke detectors not going off????
filing formal grievance
first goes to Julianne Totollino an absentee landlord at Norbeck House
How did Chadwick house burn down Georgio said that if one of the clients Alisha had not notice the ceiling on fire it would have been worse. I asked staff supervisor Georgio if the fire alarms did not go off, he looked puzzled for a moment and said, “No.”
This happened around Christmas time 2017, the residents of Chadwick stayed one night at Norbeck/Adrienne House sleeping on blowup mattresses, one girl was very very ill with a cane and since Ester my roommate was in the hospital I offered to let this girl sleep in her bed. It is now April 27th and the fire department still has not let them reopen Chadwick House. My Primary (RC) Alex Smith said about a week ago that she would be attending a morning memorial service for one of the clients who was officially listed as living at Chadwick House but in reality they have all been in a hotel since Christmas 2017.
Julianne Totalano is the supervisors of both Chadwick and Norbeck House rarely see her, when she does come for the huge Tueday meetings with chocolate covered strawberries, pizza many deckered deli sandwhiches, who pays for this (?) and why is the kitchen at Norbeck House so devoid of necessary kitchen items like a can opener that works, ANY measuring cups, spoons, very rusty unsanitary pans etc. stovetops catching on fire because the cups underneath the wires have not been cleaned for years and years and Georgio and others that I have requested for months to buy steel wool or brillo to clean the unsanitary rusty pans with months or years of layers of burnt stuff impossible to clean and the unspeakable stove with burning smell throughout the house when someone tries to use it, will not use their luxury food money for their weekly picnics called staff meetings.
Also they continue to buy bottle water for the staff though the clients must drink cloudy murky milky water from the faucet. There must surely be a paper trail of how the money for mental health patients is being misused for the never-ending staff parties. There must be a paper trail as to how this money ostesibly for clients is being spent. The basics things missing like spoons and a working can open filthy water for clients show that NOTHING to do with helping mental health patients is being done at these weekly Tuesday meetings at Norbeck for hour long parties.
I have never been on anti-psychotics certainly not in the time at this ever changing name mental health agency so why was I placed in a 24 hour facility using the excuse of my being TEMPORARILY on oxygen as stated by Holy Cross Hospital In all these years last Sept was the ONLY time I had been hospitalized though other house mates like Melisssa and Janet have spent almost a half year in hospitals leaving their rooms in townhouses or houses unused. Pam Gueron wanted the ranch house to herself and Keith Ellis who is GETTING PAID TO BE A SUPERVISOR AT BEL PRE was angry at the many complaints that I had made over the years about his bullying to then Congressman Van Hollen’s office who kindly assigned a caseworker Suzanne Loftjelm to me who saved my life.
Senator Van Hollen is now overwhelmed by Donald and the immoral tax cuts so Keith Eliis who should have been fired long ago and the deaths of clients at Bel Pre examined was able to get extreme retribution by placing me illegally in a 24 hour facility for people with extreme psychosis.
I grew up taking care of my mother who talked to imaginary people in a very angry way after the assassination of President Kennedy. I cannot continue to spend my whole life taking care of very sick people since I was 11 years old until now when I am 65 years old, Cornerstone stole my art and my art supplies the only thing I had to live for and exploited me to care for those who were sick and often never even visited for the evening meds. And becoming very ill at the two to three inspections cleaning even the baseboards with a toothbrush not a joke and Keith Ellis even stole the money the previous supervisor gave us for extra household supplies for inspections by HUD and CSA.
There is not enough square footage for adequate living. The room that I am in is exactly 5 feet across, barely enough room for the bed, there is a jerry-rigged partition for half the room. Norbeck House was built with 6 bedrooms not for 8 people, there is more room in the master bedrooms at the townhouses to subdivide. Most of the people here are senior citizen age, it seems to be a warehouse with almost no caring contact with staff. They are trying to put Peggy Weiss here for ostensibly not cleaning the townhouses well enough. I think they want this to be a warehouse for those not able to make Cornerstone look good by being able to work and the good outcomes farce means people will be abused in a number of ways if they are not able to perform WITH NO HELP OR SUPPORT WHATEVER AND IN KEITH ELLIS CASE OUTRAGEOUS BULLYING AND MOCKERY.
Pressure on me for years about my art and to be in DORS Voc Rehab without being given a SAFE place to live or even help with obtaining a camera and abuse from Eric Gordon for 5 years, I refused to be in the same room with him , and Keith Ellis would harrass me into entering a class with a very angry young man who did not want me there and pressure from his replacement not to do large work gymnasts which I had hoped to sell posters of online.
Still pressure to be in voc rehab but no help in retrieving my art supplies including oils and acrylics which Keith Ellis essentially stole from me and false promises since October from Julianne and Alex Smith and the new art “teacher” Tessa to help get back the things I need for my art. The oils and acrylics and rolls of paper to draw on are essential but so is my large desk, my lamp, my file cabinet, my whiteboard to do sketches more cheaply and other things. Stringing along by false promises so it is difficult finally to make a complaint or file a lawsuit.
I have tried to quit voc rehab over the years because of the harrassment from other clients and stealing my art supplies when I get up to go to the bathroom in the middle of a drawing but am told that if I move out I will lose my Medicaid if I am not working. I am 65 retirement age. I would love to try to sell my artwork but need safe housing FIRST.
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Filing Another Useless Grievance Against Cornerstone Montgomery aka St. Lukes aka Threshold - no oversite Whatever in agency or out
CORNERSTONE MONTGOMERY – 7 Year Report
https://cornerstonemontgomeryblog.wordpress.com/2018/04/27/filing-another-useless-grievance-against-cornerstone-montgomery-aka-st-lukes-aka-threshold-no-oversite-whatever-in-agency-or-out/
More of 7 years of mismanagement at https://lydiagorbik.blogspot.com/ THE OFFICIAL NAME OF THIS SITE IS:
Natalia Frolova and 1980 Gymnasts Paintings
I had hoped to work on my art instead of having to make so many complaints because there has been no oversight of Cornerstone Montgomery for decades and it shows.
Filing Another Useless Grievance Against Cornerstone Montgomery aka St. Lukes aka Threshold - no oversite Whatever in agency or out
The most immediately dangerous things to patients at Norbeck including Keith who has for months, at times, shaved his head, when he does their are huge, bloody gouges, this is not done with a safety razor, Keith talks to his voices every single day most of the day and like most of the 8 clients here other than doctor visits is ignored. For the second time in the last few weeks I badly rebroke a blood vessel in my left eye, even my Primary Care Physicial Dr. Polem a few days ago was so worried about it she asked an eye doctor next door who does not take Medicaid and Dr. Solomon’s office was concerned that Medicare would not pay though my eye was so badly bleeding from the pressure I have been under for 9 years now.
My eyes are so blurry I don’t know if I will be able to do art again. My eyeglasses are scratched and 6 years old and online the only perk for turning 65 years old was supposed to be a free eye exam, Dr. Solomon’s receptionist said no free eye exams by us. I asked Terry Reid the benefits specialist last winter before I turned 65 to check into it, usually she has been one of the very few employees who do their job well but she has not gotten back to me.
When Keith, (not Keith Ellis supevisor in name only of Bel Pre but one of the clients at Norbeck House) started acting really violent last week there was only one tiny new part-time person who said that the Crises Center had no room for Keith but would have the following day. This crises did not come on suddenly Keith has been badly gouging his face shaving for days before this crises. Per instructions on the wall I called the now defunct Chadwhik House and left a message which has yet to be returned. Crises Center said it wasn’t their job and to call 911. I called the police non-emergency number and asked what would happen if an officer came out and Keith refused to go with them, the woman on the line said it would depend on how he reacted to the officer but that they could not make him leave.
Other people in the house expressed fear and the little girl at the desk said she agreed that there should be two people at the desk especially when a young clients starts acting violently, but the on-call supervisor Snyder apparently didn’t and that Julianna was not on-call.
I had thought when I was forced here ostensibly because of short term oxygen use that there were supposed to be 2 people at all times at the desks in the middle of the house built for 6 clients but holding 8. And that the men were supposed to be on one side and the women on the other. My housemate Esther has complained repeatedly about Keith coming in our room to ask for cigarettes or to use something of mine, he is lonely but I have never invited him into my room and they had promised Esther told to me by Alex Smith that they would put a lock on our bedroom door, that was weeks ago yet to be done.
It is hard for me to cook because Keith is in his 20s very restless should be in some kind of basketball or softball group. Cornerstone st lukes house used to have many party type events for 20 somethings but never any sports and nothing special for the majority of clients who are senior citizen age or close to it. If I try to spend 20 minutes attempting to cook a rice or pasta dish Keith walks through the whole house CONTINUALLY and will walk through the small kitchen in a fast angry way talking to his voices about a hundred times in a 20 minute period and will stare at me while I eat. Esther has gotten into several fights with Keith for his staring. I subsist on bread peanut butter sandwhiches Ensure when I can afford it and yoghurt and juice if it is not stolen. Even though there is a locked refrigerator even before being broken for the past several weeks staff would leave it open for hours or days and much of my food was stolen. My orange juice is now spoiled because I keep as much as possible in the tiny locked cabinet alloted to us because I cannot afford to buy twice the amount of food when it is constantly stolen and the staff tells me it is my tough luck even though they have cameras trained on the kitchen and real time screens of what is going on they are too busy watching youtube or socializing with each other not the so-called clients.
People get paid to do oversight at Cornerstone, Core Service Agency, and Department of Health and Human Services -good old boy and good old girl network-and they go on their vacations, have beautiful homes and cars get to go home at night and weekends while clients fend as best they can from housemates acting out – people who never do what they are paid to do and the mess that I have written about here and at Lydia Gorbik blogspot for almost 10 years just gets worse and worse. Are they any citizen groups who care or would get involved NAMI is useless as far as getting involved on any level whatever, defending real clients from real abuse or being able to refer to Disability protection Agencies there don’t seen to be any in Maryland.
Less sick clients must act as housemother to ones who are dangerous screaming down the neighborhoods going off to the bus leaving the stove on – this was at bel pre but their is plenty of utter neglect at Norbeck House as well. Why did Chadwick house burn down? I have been told for months that it would reopen when the fire dept said it was safe. Is there any oversight agency who cares enough to look at the Fire Department reports as to why Chadwick house burned down with the smoke detectors not going off????
filing formal grievance
first goes to Julianne Totollino an absentee landlord at Norbeck House
How did Chadwick house burn down Georgio said that if one of the clients Alisha had not notice the ceiling on fire it would have been worse. I asked staff supervisor Georgio if the fire alarms did not go off, he looked puzzled for a moment and said, “No.”
This happened around Christmas time 2017, the residents of Chadwick stayed one night at Norbeck/Adrienne House sleeping on blowup mattresses, one girl was very very ill with a cane and since Ester my roommate was in the hospital I offered to let this girl sleep in her bed. It is now April 27th and the fire department still has not let them reopen Chadwick House. My Primary (RC) Alex Smith said about a week ago that she would be attending a morning memorial service for one of the clients who was officially listed as living at Chadwick House but in reality they have all been in a hotel since Christmas 2017.
Julianne Totalano is the supervisors of both Chadwick and Norbeck House rarely see her, when she does come for the huge Tueday meetings with chocolate covered strawberries, pizza many deckered deli sandwhiches, who pays for this (?) and why is the kitchen at Norbeck House so devoid of necessary kitchen items like a can opener that works, ANY measuring cups, spoons, very rusty unsanitary pans etc. stovetops catching on fire because the cups underneath the wires have not been cleaned for years and years and Georgio and others that I have requested for months to buy steel wool or brillo to clean the unsanitary rusty pans with months or years of layers of burnt stuff impossible to clean and the unspeakable stove with burning smell throughout the house when someone tries to use it, will not use their luxury food money for their weekly picnics called staff meetings.
Also they continue to buy bottle water for the staff though the clients must drink cloudy murky milky water from the faucet. There must surely be a paper trail of how the money for mental health patients is being misused for the never-ending staff parties. There must be a paper trail as to how this money ostesibly for clients is being spent. The basics things missing like spoons and a working can open filthy water for clients show that NOTHING to do with helping mental health patients is being done at these weekly Tuesday meetings at Norbeck for hour long parties.
I have never been on anti-psychotics certainly not in the time at this ever changing name mental health agency so why was I placed in a 24 hour facility using the excuse of my being TEMPORARILY on oxygen as stated by Holy Cross Hospital In all these years last Sept was the ONLY time I had been hospitalized though other house mates like Melisssa and Janet have spent almost a half year in hospitals leaving their rooms in townhouses or houses unused. Pam Gueron wanted the ranch house to herself and Keith Ellis who is GETTING PAID TO BE A SUPERVISOR AT BEL PRE was angry at the many complaints that I had made over the years about his bullying to then Congressman Van Hollen’s office who kindly assigned a caseworker Suzanne Loftjelm to me who saved my life.
Senator Van Hollen is now overwhelmed by Donald and the immoral tax cuts so Keith Eliis who should have been fired long ago and the deaths of clients at Bel Pre examined was able to get extreme retribution by placing me illegally in a 24 hour facility for people with extreme psychosis.
I grew up taking care of my mother who talked to imaginary people in a very angry way after the assassination of President Kennedy. I cannot continue to spend my whole life taking care of very sick people since I was 11 years old until now when I am 65 years old, Cornerstone stole my art and my art supplies the only thing I had to live for and exploited me to care for those who were sick and often never even visited for the evening meds. And becoming very ill at the two to three inspections cleaning even the baseboards with a toothbrush not a joke and Keith Ellis even stole the money the previous supervisor gave us for extra household supplies for inspections by HUD and CSA.
There is not enough square footage for adequate living. The room that I am in is exactly 5 feet across, barely enough room for the bed, there is a jerry-rigged partition for half the room. Norbeck House was built with 6 bedrooms not for 8 people, there is more room in the master bedrooms at the townhouses to subdivide. Most of the people here are senior citizen age, it seems to be a warehouse with almost no caring contact with staff. They are trying to put Peggy Weiss here for ostensibly not cleaning the townhouses well enough. I think they want this to be a warehouse for those not able to make Cornerstone look good by being able to work and the good outcomes farce means people will be abused in a number of ways if they are not able to perform WITH NO HELP OR SUPPORT WHATEVER AND IN KEITH ELLIS CASE OUTRAGEOUS BULLYING AND MOCKERY.
Pressure on me for years about my art and to be in DORS Voc Rehab without being given a SAFE place to live or even help with obtaining a camera and abuse from Eric Gordon for 5 years, I refused to be in the same room with him , and Keith Ellis would harrass me into entering a class with a very angry young man who did not want me there and pressure from his replacement not to do large work gymnasts which I had hoped to sell posters of online.
Still pressure to be in voc rehab but no help in retrieving my art supplies including oils and acrylics which Keith Ellis essentially stole from me and false promises since October from Julianne and Alex Smith and the new art “teacher” Tessa to help get back the things I need for my art. The oils and acrylics and rolls of paper to draw on are essential but so is my large desk, my lamp, my file cabinet, my whiteboard to do sketches more cheaply and other things. Stringing along by false promises so it is difficult finally to make a complaint or file a lawsuit.
I have tried to quit voc rehab over the years because of the harrassment from other clients and stealing my art supplies when I get up to go to the bathroom in the middle of a drawing but am told that if I move out I will lose my Medicaid if I am not working. I am 65 retirement age. I would love to try to sell my artwork but need safe housing FIRST.
Desired outcomes should be more than apparent and should have been years before I wrote this if there had been any oversight whatever for DECADES.
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Have tried hard to be an artist but bullying housemates in group home block kitchen, steal art supplies while I am working and get up to make food and much worse. There is no effectual oversight of group homes as outline in NYTimes and other articles in 2015, nothing has changed. This is a kind of #me too site. View all posts by cornerstonemont
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Have tried hard to be an artist but bullying housemates in group home block kitchen, steal art supplies while I am working and get up to make food and much worse. There is no effectual oversight of group homes as outline in NYTimes and other articles in 2015, nothing has changed. This is a kind of #me too site. View all posts by cornerstonemont
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pam and chris illegally living in pam's room at cornerstone montgomery
At Cornerstone, Montgomery, formerly St. Luke House and Threshold, there have been many clinicians not just my own therapist and psychiatrist like Leah Cooperman who have objected to the way Keith Ellis, supervisor from Threshold not Bel Pre, treat their clients including no Rehab Counselor meetings for many clients including myself. There seems to be a major purge going on, all the maintenance crew who did much more work than Keith or Ms. Burke, who confessed last housing inspection that she had never been in this house and did not know how to turn on the lights or that the rain gutters were growing trees, were fired and the purge seems to be moving toward clinicians, office managers, etch. some purges have already taken place so the only push back agains Keith Ellis and his boss, Nicole Burke, who is likewise utterly uncaring and uninvolved in consumer welfare will have full reign to exploit and ignore mental health patients in great need. I don't know if the CEO and Board Members are pushing for privatization as well as their 2 year effort to gain accredidation from the Joint Commission. I will be writing them, HUD and the Washington Post, The New York Times has a TIPS LINE for those who have witnessed abuse and neglect in group homes and several other newspapers have done articles on conditions in group homes.
I hope that the Joint Commission, HUD and the Washington Post will do an investigation before the purge goes any further so that testimony about the Residential Administration ignoring of severe problems including bullying and major untreated health issues of residents.
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run-around from Bel Pre with SERVICES NOT RENDERED, but basic
information about abuse and neglect at Cornerstone/St. Lukes over the
past number of years can be gleaned from my writing. I have sent
most to then Congressman Van Hollen who did his best to help, but
management dragged things on, I
made a mistake in not going forward to the Board of Licensure, etc.
so that the Congresspersons helping me could make sure the real, not
bogus in-house investigations were being done fairly and objectively
Congressman Murphy helped with the violent things the Art Teacher
Eric Gordon had been doing, he was fired after 5 years of abusing
clients not in Eric's in group, but Rep. Murphy did not contact me
with a way to send my full complaint to Boston Advocacy, a group the
late Sen. Kennedy created and left funding for and one of his staff
members a few years ago said that there was no reason why Boston
Advocacy could not help me but the problem was resolved but now I
need the strongest advocacy I can find since I am about to lose my
housing for complaining about Pam Gueron's over the top bullying,
letting her friend live in her room for several months – which
showed clearly Keith Ellis mismanagement unconcern of what is going
on in the group homes and Pam's very suspicious expenditures way, way
beyond the means of anyone living in this subsidized housing.
The
Cornerstone Compliance officer,
Marissa Gillum has
refused to meet with me after my written email complaint 2 months
ago. Keith told me that Pam Gueron's finances are none of my business
even though I wrote that Pam spends over a thousand dollars a month,
month after month on clothes shopping sprees and piles of prepared
food for herself and friend Kris which is astonishing, no one living
at Cornerstone has that much expendable income. Maybe the
Dept. of Human Resources will
agree that if you see something very suspicious you should say
something.
6-25-27
My other housemate, Janet
Listou, she is in her late 50s, has
been in the hospital again for about 6 days (6-25-17),
over the past 2 months she
has called the ambulance about 40 times.
This
is easy to confirm by calling the local, zip code 20906, rescue
squad.
Before these 2 months Janet called the ambulance many, many times.
Montgomery General Hospital would often send her home with no care
and insisted about 5 months ago that Cornerstone Montgomery get Janet
a physical therapist to help her with her falling.
The
physical therapist came for a time and did help with the falling but
Janet has extreme abdominal pain from not being able to digest food
from an operation she had about 8 months ago there is scar tissue.
Janet insists that the ambulance now send her to Suburban where she
is kept for about 5 days for about 7 times with a tube in nose to
drain the food in her stomach that she is not able to digest. Her
Rehab Counselor Nila visits with Janet, is very sweet but Janet says
Nila doesn't know what to do. Keith Ellis the supervisor does not
train his workers, there is a very high turnover of RCs and Keith is
an expert at the blame game, nothing is his responsibility. This
needs to be looked into. Suburban insisted just before Janet went
into the hospital this last time that Janet be given medical help
from Cornerstone, I
asked Janet what had happened to the physical therapist and she said
she didn't know and has often complained that Bel Pre Cornerstone
does nothing for her. A
serious investigation needs to be made into Keith Ellis severe
mismanagement and neglect of clients who are endangered by being very
ill. As with Betty Levy, the medical staff that Cornerstone says it
has is never around or able to be contacted. Nothing up on the
emergency numbers on wall.
About
a month ago, Janet Listou, was supposed to have a colonscopysy but
received no help from RC staff in preparing and
she was not cleaned out enough for the medical staff to complete.
I
was supposed to meet with my psychiatrist Dr.
Parveen
on June 14, 2017 but an emergency meeting had been called and Keith
was running up and down the stairs, the office manager apologized and
I don't think she is too fond of Keith, Debbie and Jeannie said their
clinicians said they know Keith well, the meeting was obviously about
my complaint. Keith and Nicole Briscoe, my purported RC whom I never
see, were supposed to have a meeting at noon on the 21st.
They were an hour late because Pam did not tell me the meeting had
been postponed. Before Nicole arrived late, Keith and Pam were
socializing like they were at a party, I went to have a cigarette in
the middle of the meeting because Nicole, Keith and Pam were yukking
it up, after the meeting Nicole asked to talk to Keith before they
left in their separate cars, Pam went out to talk with them and they
were socializing with a client who has broken laws and rules and
regulations for about 20 minutes. Keith
is so unprofessional, I have thought for years to call him
unprofessional is a compliment. There are no words.
A
few days earlier when Nicole did take me grocery shopping because I
was out of cab coupons and as usual in lieu of the required sit down
meetings that RCs are supposed to have several times a month with
clients which is another service not rendered. One of Pam's usual
mail order purchases were outside, I did not touch it, Nicole brought
it in and placed it in Pam's bedroom threshold. During
the meeting Pam told an outrageous lie that I had been in her room
and
was gearing up for one of her hysterical denunciations of me over
lies or nothing at all, beginning with the mail order box just beyond
her bedroom threshold when, Nicole admitted she had put it there, the
wind went out of Pam's sails and Pam apologized. But
it did not stop her from standing and socializing for a long time by
Keith's and Nicole's cars.
Keith
made an emergency meeting with my therapist Paula for Monday 6/26, he
is going to drive me and I am afraid he will want to be at the
meeting and do all the talking and Paula and I will not get a chance
to talk, Pam today said in a low voice on her cellphone that “after
tomorrow, she would know.”
I
will continue to try to get one or more fair and impartial
investigations from an oversight agency and I hope the Washington
Post and/or Beacon.
In Illinois group homes, adults with disabilities suffer in...
www.chicagotribune.com/news/watchdog/grouphomes/ct-group-hom...
Nov
21, 2016 ...
Group
homes
are supposed to provide freedom and independence for adults with ...
Illinois hides abuse
and neglect of adults with disabilities. Barbara ... Illinois
officials blacked out those details from their investigative report.
No
matter how loud Pam screams and bellows she cannot turn the Truth
into lie or a lie into the TRUTH.
“Woe
unto those who put evil for good and good for evil.”
www.propublica.org/article/advoserv-profit-and-abuse...
Dec
10, 2015 ...
Group
homes
are now overwhelmingly run by private organizations, and ..... it was
supposed to immediately report
any incident where abuse
or ...
disabilityjustice.org/justice-denied/abuse-and-exploitation/...
Many
live in segregated
environments, such as group
homes,
where abuse
can ... and/or cognitive disabilities may find it difficult to report
abuse
effectively.
1:45pm
June 7, 2017
Kris' canes propped against dining room table, Pam's bedroom store
partly shut
6:23pm
June 7, 2017
Kris still here, Pam ordered several pizzas, on couch eating.
I
would estimate that Pam
Gureon, housemate,
spends $1,000 to $1,500 on luxury items EACH MONTH about 3 times a
week, week after week, month after month for about 6 months. There is
no way she could qualify for food stamps or subsidized housing. An
investigation needs to be made about Pam's significant financial
assets, it
is way beyond spend-down.
There are so many people who are really in need of housing.
12:02am
June 4, 2017
Kris,
Pam's friend who has been illegally living
at 12902 Valleywood Drive, 20906, HUD HOUSE managed by Cornerstone
for much of each month for about 6 months including overnight, is
here again, her canes are propped against dining table.
7:30
pm June 4, 2017 Kris
walked across the living room into Pam's bedroom as I was pulling in
2 bags of groceries after I spent all day at
Panera
with a very slow wifi connection sending
the following complaint to Marissa Gillum, Compliance Officer,
and expanded complaint of the one I sent 2 weeks ago with nothing
having been done.
Janet
Listou,
other housemate in her late 50s, looked very frail and ill, usually
even when she gets home from many hospital stays bounces back, I
think from the commotion of having Kris and Pam partying on couch in
small house, Janet likes to sit in easy chair in living room and
Pam's heavy duty sales pitches of hate against me. Janet sides with
Pam but is basically an honest person and is not a mean person. So
in addition to her ongoing severe medical problems she has to put up
with Pam working on her alternately bullying and offer food and
friendship to get her to say that Kris is not here that often and
many other untrue things. Pam
is the hardest of hard salespersons.
6:30pm
June 5, 2017 Janet
called the ambulance again to go back to the hospital. God bless her
and heal Janet.
June
2, 2017
Dear
Ms. Gillum,
I
would like to request a meeting with you as soon as possible.
I have suffered retribution from the complaint that I made and I am
stuck here without a phone. LEGALLY
all the Cornerstone houses are supposed to have WORKING phones. My
purported
RC Nicole Briscoe whom I spoke with today refused again to take me to
the office to make phone calls. Our
house phone has been going
in and out mostly not working
at all for more than a year. A
Verizon
repairman came a year ago and my then housemate Jeanne
said he refused to come into the house because it was handled by
another company and he
was only allowed to work outside,
about two months ago the same thing happened and I heard the
repairman standing outside the screen door said he was not allowed to
come in to Janet about 6 weeks ago. On both occasions the phone did
not improve. About a month ago Keith
Ellis, Bel
Pre Supervisor,
gave
us a “temporary”
cellphone which used to belong to Nicole
Briscoe.
Day before yesterday, the cellphone said it had been discontinued
and airtime was needed. I told this to both Keith
and
Nicole
today, Nicole said it
must need airtime
but did not say if or when anything would be done.
I am too tired to continually push for the services that I have a
right to expect from Cornerstone and Bel Pre.
June
3, 2017
I
felt too sick after 10:30pm to continue writing about the terrible
events of yesterday and before.
Although
Nicole stated on the phone last week that we meet every other Friday,
it is not true.
Nicole refused to meet with me last Friday because she had met with
me the previous Friday when I told her in the house about Kris living
here, Janet and Pam were in their rooms and obviously heard, Nicole
Briscoe
said she was hurt by the things I said to Shane
about
her and that she had a very good relationship with Shane, also said
she was “flabbergasted”
at the news that Kris had been living here from early morning to 10pm
and beyond for about one half to 2/34rds of the month for several
months and said it wasn't really her business that the
house problems were Cameron's responsibility
but that this sounded like a job for Keith.
I
knew nothing would come of it due to their previous refusals to get
involved in Pam's harrassment, ie, throwing away my food, and
throwing away the household linens so she could use the
shared space
linen closet for her food so that weekend I finished the report on
Pam's breaking of the rules and the law and emailed it to you, hoping
the Compliance Officer could do an honest investigation and give me
relief from verbal abuse, harrassment from Pam and being forced to
share this very small house which is licensed for 3 with a 4th
stowaway friend of Pam's.
When
Jeanne was still here I asked Keith several times to put up the
information on HUD esp complaints on
the wall but he refused multiple times despite
the law
it is still not there.
My
current job coach, Shane
Senior,
has expressed great frustration and anger at the way Keith treats him
in the Tuesday staff meetings because he and Nicole say everything is
his job. My previous job coach Vanessa
expressed similar anger and she finally stopped going to the meetings
partly because Keith did
all the talking.
Before I switched to Shane, Vanessa would pressure me to have Nicole
do things like take me to get a bank account so
that I could sell my prints and paintings online
and I refused any longer to be bounced back and for the like a ping
pong ball since it has happened often about things like getting a
laptop and opening a bank account. If Shane
had
not been with me 2 weeks ago and I introduced him to the bank manager
as my Job Coach I
would not have been able to open an account.
We
could not do our usual work of uploading paintings and checking out
stores, Ebay, etc. I have been told previously by
PNC Bank
that I could not open an account unless I did automatic deposit of my
check, in this case the manager pressed for the same thing and almost
refused to open an account because the only ID I have is a picture ID
from DMV and the bank requires a second ID, she asked if I did not
have a debit card and Shane
told her that I did not have
another
bank account. She almost refused but finally accepted my Medicare
card as a second ID though initially refusing it. And was gracious
enough to say that once my online art business got underway to come
back and discuss a business account, she was very interested once she
heard I was an artist and expressed interest in portraiture.
I
met with Shane
and
Paula
Weiss, my
therapist
in April 2017 and Shane
expressed great frustration saying he had been told that I have and
RC to help with things like that, I guess Voc
Rehab
has not wanted to make an official complaint, and I
told Paula that I have essentially been without an RC since early
fall of 2016 though
Nicole
Briscoe
is
being paid to be my RC. But Keith has ignored my therapist's
requests in the past which is why I finally had to go outside the
agency to have my needs addressed.
This
horrible situation with Pam
and Kris
would never have proceeded to this point if I had an RC who met with
me on a regular basis as required and who did not blow me off and
refuse to listen when she takes me to medical appointments or when I
happen rarely
to
see her at morning meds or when she delivered Nourish
Now.
I soon will not have Call
and Ride
and will be completely stuck her with a phone that rarely works
because I need to have my Primary Care doctor sign the new forms by
May
31,
I told her almost a month ago, Nicole promised to make an appointment
with Dr.
Polam
so that I could also have the results of my colonoscopy and endoscopy
read but she made an appt on the same day as my appt with Dr.
Parveen, Nicole
forgot to cancel
as she had promised and Dr. Polam's office called to ask why I did
not show up for appt., $25 fee for missed appts. Nicole said it was
my fault really because I should have been the one to call but I
pointed out AGAIN that we do not have a working phone. Nicole said
June 2 that she had sent a copy of the colonoscopy report to Dr.
Polam not to Dr. Parveen as I had requested.
My
housemate Janet
Listou
recently got back from her second stay in the hospital within a very
short time, I don't know how many times she has been in the hospital
for the last few months for scar tissue from her major abdominal
surgery more than 6 months ago, she is often in pain, and I
notice Kris here in the very
early
morning most often when Janet is in the hospital.
On
June 1, 2017 Janet
was
prepping for a colonscopsy on June 2nd
I asked her if they were taking good care of her and she said “The
doctors, yes. Cornerstone, no.”
Janet was up all night with diarrhea and in the early morning hours
there was a very large trail of defecation from her bathroom to the
easy chair in the living room. I tried to help her. Later she took
a cab and when I said Janet needed someone with her Keith said
someone would take her home. Later Janet said they were not able to
do it because she was not cleaned out. When I had my recent one
done, the modified fast and medication was done slowly over a three
day period so there was no problem. Janet is mostly self-sufficient
but does need help with some things.
I
made 2 very large written complaints almost 2 years ago to then
Congressman Van Hollen about
Keith
Ellis' mismanagement,
VERY unprofessional treatment of me and its effect on me and other
clients. Cornerstone should have copies and I believe I have a copy
on flash-drive. Two previous housemates of mine Debbie
and Jeanne
who
did not know each other, said their therapists were “frustrated”
by Keith and Jeanne's psychiatrist said they were aware of the
situation with Linda but could do nothing. I guess because Keith's
supervisor a
different Nicole,
always states to Paula and me that it is the province of the
Residential staff not the psychiatrists and therapists.
Rep.
Van Hollen at least got Cornerstone to move
an elderly woman, Linda, with Alzheimer
who Jeanne used to room with and was very concerned about her lack of
eating and wandering with the police sometimes bringing her back,
Keith told Jeanne that there was a
grey hair alert
about Linda but she was clearly in danger and after I made the
complaint, Linda was moved to the house by Southport. I believe
Senator
Van Hollen
would still have the report and if Cornerstone is trying to be
approved by the
Joint Commission
I hope that as much attention will be paid to severe ongoing
management issues as to maintenance.
Keith
Ellis basically,
finally left me alone after my second
complaint to Rep. Van Hollen but yesterday, June 2, 2017again began
his goofy, junior high school game-playing, sarcastic behavior
towards me while acting very buddy-buddy with Pam
Gueron.
He
woke me up at 9 am and looked around my room and closet,
I asked him what he was doing and he said in an off sort of goofy
“off”
way
that he
was looking to make sure that I wasn't hiding any visitors.
Keith knows that I never have visitors. He had said in our meeting
two weeks ago he would start making more house checks to make sure
that Kris
was not
staying overnight
or from early morning to late evening, I guess. A few minutes later
I went to the bathroom which is right next to Pam's bedroom, her door
was shut and it did not
seem that he had checked her room. There was a maintenance man
coming in and out yesterday for more than an hour.
About
20 minutes later, Pam came out of her room. I tried to use the house
phone to double-check if Nicole was coming to the
only
third scheduled sit-down meeting we have had since last autumn.
After several tries,
Yen answered
and I thought he said that Nicole was coming to the phone but got a
dial tone. I tried repeatedly to call back, Keith listened and said
“It
is working, there is a dial tone.” I
said that
doesn't mean anything and
continued to dial but the call would not go through. After several
requests Keith in which he ignored me, he emailed the office and said
Yen told him that Nicole was on her way. When
I tried to speak with Keith he either ignored me or made a smart-alec
answer.
He spent sometime in friendly social conversation with Pam. When I
asked Keith to repeat something he went into a nasty routine that
talking to me was
like talking to his grandmother
didn't repeat what he had said and went back to his chummy
conversation with Pam
Gureon. This is so unprofessional esp. under these circumstances.
When
Nicole showed up, I requested to go to the Bel Pre office and she
said we would drive somewhere. She didn't even drive down the street
but said we would meet where she had parked in front of the house.
When I got in I requested that we go to the office so
that I could make some phone calls,
esp. to Dr.
Polam,
she asked if I had brought the cellphone out “temporary”
phone and that we could call with that, I said that when I tried to
call, I got the message that service had been discontinued and
airtime was needed. Nicole said it
sounds like we need to add airtime,
but did not say when or if that would EVER be done. She did not
offer to use her current phone but said she would call Dr. Polam when
she got back to the office and would call me with the date and time,
I
pointed out that we did not have a working phone or one that for
over a year
only works very sporadically,
she said
she forgot
and would send a message with one of the medication RCs, she did not
make
our next appointment to meet together. I was tired of Who's
On First, ring around the rosy routines to
get Nicole to minimally do her job, so did not press anything at all.
No energy left.
She
said that Pam had made a complaint that I was looking at some
paperwork that Kris
and Pam were
doing on the dining room table. I had seen a logo on one of the
sheets that looked like a HUD logo, so went over and
spent about 10 seconds
or less looking at it, Pam began screaming and screaming, and to
scatter the pages all over the table that it was none of my business.
I had not been speaking to her for a few weeks but this time said
that if Kris was filling out HUD papers to take over my room...Pam
would not let me finish and Kris as I was walking away pointed to the
logo and said this says HUI does that sound like HUD. Pam shushed
her, continued screaming at me, I tried to speak and Pam said she
didn't want to talk to me ever again which
was a great relief but not to last since
I have just started walking away from her nonsensical beratings and
ridiculous accusations when I try to use the kitchen or washing
machine. I never initiate a
“conversation” with
Pam and have always stayed far away as I could from Kris
and Pam
except when they are cooking almost every night, I often turn back
but sometimes, squeeze
through the open door to the kitchen to make tea or go to the
bathroom where it is unavoidable.
IF
KRIS DOES NOT
HAVE
HOUSING WHY DIDN'T SHE SIGN UP WITH HUI
BEFORE INSTEAD
OF LIVING HERE ½ TO 2/3rds OF THE MONTH FOR SEVERAL MONTHS???
I
tried to tell Nicole
Briscoe
some of the other things that Pam had been doing to me, Nicole
knew
of Pam's throwing away my food and throwing away the linens and
taking over the shared space of the linen closet for months but did
nothing and blew me off whenever I would press for a meeting with
her. In the meeting on May 19th
I told Nicole that if she had done something about the thrown away
linens and taking over of that space it would not have encourage Pam
that she could do whatever she wanted regardless of rules or laws,
esp having a friend move in.
I
had called Nicole a day or so after sending my complaint to the
Compliance Officer when the cellphone was
working
to meeting with me and she said we always meet twice a month on
Friday, which is NOT true and that since we had met on May 19 she
could not meet with me on the 26th.
I was going through hell and deserved SOME support finally after all
these months without the mandated weekly or biweekly sit down
meetings with a Rehabilitation Counselor. Nicole said that she
didn't know anything
about the house problems that it was Cameron's responsibility not
hers though she is my REHAB COUNSELOR which she had also said on the
19th,
Keith definitely does believe in working as a team but ignoring needs
of staff and clients and playing the blame game with those assigned
to a task, what are the weekly staff meetings for if no one knows
nothing about anything?
I
have tried calling my therapist and the Compliance Officer on the
cellphone, when it was working, but when I hit 1 to get the operator
for the extension, it does not go through, I told Nicole this after I
sent the complaint but she point blank refused to take me to the
office for a working phone where I could call the Compliance officer
and said she would talk to Keith ????? but could definitely not take
me to the office to make a phone call to Marissa either that day or
any other.
Continuing
with the 20 minute meeting on June 2nd,
my RC Nicole said that although problems with the house were
Cameron's and Keith's responsibility, SHE REALLY DIDN'T KNOW ANYTHING
ABOUT THEM, she would try to offer me support and took a little more
interest in what I had to say but seemed to be laughing
inappropriately at my anger and relating of SOME of the things I had
been going through which she would have known about as they were
happening instead of the constant blaming of me for not reporting
these things earlier.
I
have reported them now and in a week and a half things have gotten
worse and Kris continues to stay here.
Unlike
my first reporting of Kris living here on May 19th
Nicole seemed utterly unconcerned, I asked her to take me to Bel
Pre
so that I could call the Compliance Officer to set up a meeting since
Keith's behavior earlier showed he was not going to do anything to
handle the situation appropriately. Nicole gave me a run-around
answer to refusing to let me use the office phone or her cellphone
and I said, “I
guess I am on my own then, and will send another email to the
Compliance Officer.”
Nicole agreed with this and when I said it was unlikely that Ms.
Gillum would be able to get through on our broken house phone if
Nicole could relay any message from Ms. Gillum setting up a time to
meet, Nicole graciously agreed to do this much.
Yesterday,
at 5:14pm I first noticed Kris
and Pam sitting
on the couch which faces the kitchen, the living room, dining room
and kitchen form one rectangular room with the exception of a small L
shape where Janet usually sits. They went out for a while and came
back with a box of Kentucky
Fried Chicken
for Janet and piles of wrapped sandwiches on the table, and 3 huge
shopping bags, one from Marshall, again the disposable income that
Pam has to spend week after week several times a week is impossible
to overstate and I have never seen anything close to it in the
subsidized housing at Cornerstone. I have never mentioned this to
Janet, Pam or Kris, but I think Nicole or Keith has given Pam some
information not related to a real investigation of this and other
matters.
Pam
and Kris
were laughing on the couch from about 7:30pm to 10pm.
Keith had stated to me in our meeting a few days after my first
complaint to Compliance that no
way should a guest be here after 10pm,
when I asked what to do, Keith asked if I would be comfortable using
the house phone to call Chadwick
House after
hours. In the first friendlier meeting Keith kept going back and
forth on when Pam should be allowed to have guests, he said at one
point that Kris should be able to stay there from 8am to 9pm which is
longer than an 8 hour work day, when I objected and said what if Kris
is here at 6am and Keith
said that if Kris is there that early people might think she had
stayed the night
so Kris should not arrive before 10:30am then said it still might
seem as if Kris spent the night so he amended it to between 12 noon
and 8pm. At first he spoke of it being tentative, when I asked to
set up a meeting with the Compliance Officer, he seemed to say it was
definite.
Cameron
came a few days ago with a
typed up RULES FOR GUESTS
and told me before I signed it that guests would only be allowed 3
days a week from 12noon to 8pm, I told him that it was a relief to
me. He affixed the RULES in a professional looking clear plastic
jacket with the signatures of all three of us residents.
Now
comes the hard part of trying to describe one of Pam's worst
hysterical fits with physical blocking and intimidation though she
has often come close especially when she first moved in when I
finally told her repeatedly that I was going to complaint to
Compliance.
At
10pm with no sign of Kris leaving
I decided to take a photo of Kris' two canes which she often leaves
propped against the couch or dining table AT ALL HOURS OF THE DAY OR
NIGHT even when she is in Pam's room. Since Janet is alternately
bullied or bribed with food by Pam when she needs Janet to testify
against me and the
truth of Kris essentially or actually living here.
Pam saw the camera and rushed up to me as she was folding the large
Marshall Shopping bag to throw away that she WAS NOT GOING TO LET ME
TAKE PICTURES OF HER PURCHASES and kept blocking my way standing
very, very close to me pushing her face into mine, as I tried to move
sideways to get away from her, it was like Pam was a football player
and continued blocking my free movement, and continuing to SCREAM AND
SCREAM AND SCREAM literally in my face that she was not going to
allow me to take pictures of her purchases that it was none of my
business. When I said I wanted only to take a photo of Kris canes,
she finally moved away hiding
the other two department store shopping bags with her body.
I
wish that I had been taking date/time
stamped pictures
of Kris' canes all along when she stows away in Pam's room to prove
the amount of time she stays her. I managed to snap one photo of
Kris' canes, from a distance since Pam would not let me move, I did
not take photos of any person or Pam's extensive purchases. My verbal
description below of the amazing amount of money she spends every
week, week after week should be more than enough to begin an
investigation. Since Pam alternately bullies and bribes Janet with
food to lie and say that Kris is not here that much, and since after
2 weeks nothing effectual has been done to set up any rules for Kris'
staying here day after day from early morning to 10pm and I believe
beyond since she goes in Pam's bedroom around 10pm I can't prove that
but even staying in the house 10 to 14 hours a day is not a guest
situation.
I
told her that the RULES FOR GUESTS that Cameron
had posted and told
me
that the hours for guests were from noon to eight, 3 days a week, Pam
again NON-STOP SCREAMING stated that Keith had told her that it
wasn't finalized
and that she had also talked to Cameron who said the same thing and
despite being signed by all three of us, Cameron, though he
definitely
told me the 3 days, noon
to 8pm
was NOT WRITTEN ON THE RULES DESPITE THE NEAT PLASTIC OFFICIAL
LOOKING PACKAGING. When I was just about to get into Nicole's car
earlier on June 2nd,
she joked with Keith who was getting into his car that she did not
want to take the company car because it was too messy. Keith
could have told me at that point that he had changed his mind
and that Pam could continue to have Kris living here daylight hours
into 10pm and beyond until SOMEDAY, the acceptable hours and DAYS for
visitors was finalized.
In
our earlier and only meeting, I said very little as I am not a loud
talker much less screamer and had decided and told Keith I was not
going to get in screaming matches with Pam to defend myself but that
I was not going to keep silent about what she was doing to me any
more, and Keith in the friendlier meeting had told me that I did not
have to live this way, that berating me in front of Kris and Janet
for putting MY spaghetti strainer in the “wrong
place”
was
ridiculous and that
there
would be
limitations for
Pam's “guest” living in this house, I told Keith that it was VERY
unlikely that Pam would honor any rules whatever and that I would
have to be calling him twenty times a day since I was no longer going
to keep silent about the things Pam was doing to me. Keith repeated
4 or 5 times that I would not be calling him twenty times a day which
I took to mean that he would handle the situation effectively.
He
said he might meet with Pam privately or with Cameron in house
meeting after memorial day, I said that since Pam loves an audience
for her screaming tantrums that it would be better to inform her of
the Guest Rules privately first, since Keith had seen and heard Pam
screaming at the one meeting early on about Pam throwing away my food
and Pam's screaming about my clothes in the coat closet, he knew, I
also think Pam calls him incessantly to complain about everything
under the sun including me and Pam has bragged that she
“didn't mind getting in Keith's face.” to
get her way.
After
I took the picture of Kris' canes and the GUEST RULES on the wall,
meanwhile Pam continuing to scream, I dialed
Chadwick House and
managed to get through, while I moved the chair to the phone, Pam
continued SCREAMING at the top of her lungs that it wouldn't matter
who I called that there were no
rules
about how long or when Kris could be here, I spoke with a young girl
who surely could have heard Pam continue to SCREAM, she said the
supervisor would call me back, while I was trying to explain the
situation to the
Chadwick
supervisor it was hard to hear because PAM JUST KEPT ON SCREAMING AT
ME. The
supervisor asked if I felt if I was in danger and
I said I wasn't sure,
“Pam
is out of control and won't stop screaming, you can hear her!”
(Pam
Gueron
has been this wild since she moved in though she can also be charming
and calm. Pam
has begun to get more physically intimidating,
when she was screaming at me not to get ice on the paper towels just
BEFORE my complaint, her
body was very
close
to mine and the 3rd
or 4th
time she screamed/bellowed it, her mouth must have been less than an
inch away from my left ear.
I
believe that Pam should be removed from this house as soon as
possible for safety reasons. I am very vulnerable without a phone
that I can depend on to be working. Pam
Gueron
should be immediately investigated esp. as to whether she has been
thrown out of other group homes for doing similar things. She should
be banned from EVER doing this to anyone again in subsidized housing
of which there is much evidence that she does not
qualify
for because she obviously has not declared her
substantial financial assets to
Cornerstone.)
While
I was on the phone, Kris apparently called for a cab and opened the
door to watch.
After
I got off the phone Pam continued screaming and I said God
sees the Truth
but waits,
since she continued OUT OF CONTROL SCREAMING that I was a liar, I
said it again and that with
what
is happening on the news it didn't seem that God would wait much
longer (to establish His Kingdom of Justice
when the Lord Jesus returns as the signs of the time are pointing to
and for the Last Judgment of the workers of iniquity).
I couldn't complete a sentence because Pam kept screaming at me that
I was a liar. I attempted several times to tell it to the Maryland
Board of Licensure
investigator and that an
unauthorized person living here WAS MY BUSINESS.
Pam
again called me a liar and was screaming that it didn't matter who I
complained to that there were no rules about Kris being in this
house, in between her SCREAMING I told her that I had also charged
her with verbal
abuse and harrassment
and amazingly Pam shut up.
At
the same time, Janet
was
angry and started screaming at me why was I telling lies, I tried to
speak but was shouted down and Pam violently gestured with her open
hand to Janet as if congratulating her puppet and that the truth
would not have a chance with the two of them lying, I walked away
with Janet screaming at me not to walk away from her, Janet
followed me to my room and continued berating me calling me a liar
saying Kris was not here that
much,
I
told her that she was afraid of Pam,
Janet said she
was not afraid of Pam
but calmed down, I told Janet that she would have a
chance to give her on-the-record
testimony
to the investigator
and she said I
will and
walked away.
I
had a bad bout of diarrhea last night tho I rarely suffer from it
presumably due to Pam's ratcheting up her war against me before and
after I made my complaint, feeling too upset to cook meals for a long
time and especially since before and after I made my complaint, and
the lack of any support from Bel Pre or Cornerstone which became all
too clear yesterday.
Keith
had also said in our earlier meeting that Pam could have guests only
on Monday,
Wed, Friday.
When
Kris came on
Saturday, I called RC Ellen
who was very unfriendly and said that she had not received an email
from Keith about it. I said I was going to try to get through to the
compliance officer, Ellen said I could do whatever I wanted. I tried
to reach Ms.
Gillum
to leave a message but did not know the extension. Though Keith
wasn't working on Saturday he called back told me not to be upset not
to notice how late Kris stayed
that Pam had a right to have guests and that she might chose a
weekend and that Cameron would be having a house meeting after
Memorial Day, I said that Cameron did not have the strength of
personality to stand up to Pam and set limits and Pam would spend the
whole time screaming and I would not have a chance to speak and I
asked if Compliance had sent Keith a copy of my complaint, he said
no, and that there were several other things that I needed to talk
with him about and had a copy of the Complaint on my flash drive.
Keith
said he would meet with me the Tuesday
following Memorial Day at Bel Pre since I couldn't talk in the house
but Keith did not call and there was no meeting.
Keith
did meet with Pam alone a few days after our first and only meeting,
I came home from buying a few items at the store, they were sitting
at the dining table, his conversation with Pam seemed to be very
serious. After he left, Pam seemed very sober and upset. I don't
know what later happened to turn Keith into an insulting jokster to
me on June 2nd.
May
31st
9:20pm Kris and Pam sitting on couch watching TV constant laughing by
Pam as usual
I
feel too sick to try to cook dinner and for the second day and as I
often do, only eat dry cereal or cooked cereal or toast or yoghurt
when I have it because of discomfort using the kitchen to make a real
meal not knowing what Pam will pull next to show off to her friend
Kris.
Someone
who stays here all day long and well into the evening day after day,
week after week, month after month is not a “guest” but is
illegally living here.
Last
weekend, in response to Pam
and Kris
here again, I called and left a message for Keith to call, he did so
said nothing had been decided about how often Kris could live here,
that Pam had a right to have a “guest”
“visitor”
to try to ignore it and that he would meet with me on Tuesday, Keith
said that he had not received a copy of my complaint and I told him
that we had not discussed everything in our meeting. Keith
did not
meet with me on Tuesday
and I believe after having given Keith a chance to handle it that
nothing will be done. I
again request a meeting with you to find some relief from this
situation which has been going on for months. And which has gotten
MUCH worse since my written/emailed complaint two weeks ago.
HUD
entrusted Cornerstone with the management of this house, letting one
person like Pam come in and begin outrageously abusing
one or more clients so they cannot function
with NO RESTRAINT or follow-up is not living up to your contract with
HUD or the other funders including those
citizens in the community
who believe that basic management of protecting clients from bullys
who are inadvertently allowed housing.
Dear
Ms. Gillum,
I
would like to request a meeting with you. Kris
is apparently still
living here illegally despite
my meeting with Keith and his meeting ALONE with Pam. There are
STILL no rules whatever for the amount of time that Kris may be here
and I would like again to request relief from verbal harrassment by
Pam and relief from a 4th
person not accepted into Cornerstone
Residential Program
still living here. Keith asked if I still wanted to meet with you
and at that time, I said if
it would stop,
if Keith would handle it, no, however
it continues
and I would also like to ask if there are any plans to investigate if
Pam
Gueron declared
all her financial assets, no one who
spends the astonishing amount of money she does week after week
should have food stamps or other benefits and
I question if she is eligible for subsidized housing or if so, if Pam
is paying her fair amount. An investigation using the broad
privileges of the Patriot Act should be used to investigate at least
the financial portion of my complaint.
I
don't believe Pam will be content or let up until she pushes me out,
ie, drives me away by harrassment, screaming lies and tantrums at
house meeting and other times, reporting lies to staff and continual
provoking of me to get a response to Pam's reign of terror to report
to Keith and also to her RC while I am he most of the time I am
silent, or say one word or walk away although I have been able to
keep self-control, these continue provocations have been wearing me
down. I
have been silent too long and will begin speaking up about the
violations of rules and laws and what it is doing to me.
After
that, due to the sometimes bullying of Janet, I believe Pam would
attempt to push Janet out and any subsequent mentally ill residents
with a financial need so
that Pam and Kris may have the HUD house at 12902 Valleywood Drive to
themselves.
When
Pam first started this reign of terror around
the first week she moved in,
by throwing away my food and other things SOME of which are reported
below, I tried fighting back but the
nonsensical and irrational nature of her accusations
or responses along with the screaming which she did in front of
Cameron in several meetings and the one meeting early on with Keith
and Nicole makes them not want to deal with her either. She can also
be slick and calm, I think Pam enjoys an audience and screaming at
her latest scapegoat but there is obviously a bigger agenda of taking
over this house completely.
For
a long time, I ignored her provocations at first I would tell her I
would not get into a screaming match with her but would file a
complaint with the Compliance Officer, but
the sick feeling of even attempting to write all these attacks and
snares made me something of a Stockholm
Syndrome victim
as well along with her constant more successful attempt to turn Janet
against me and I did my best to avoid Pam or just answer in a few
calm words to Pam's
gross provocations.
Despite
her early vociferous complaints of my having some clothes in the coat
closet which are now removed, I have photos of how she
took over the linen closet and there are no linens as there are in
every Cornerstone house so obviously Pam
threw them away.
Pam takes up more than her fair share of the living room, her huge
exercise ball is in the corner by the couch along with a large
painting stored sideways and other things piled up.
The
Little Foxes that
Spoil
the Grapes.
Well
known phrase from the Bible, Song of Songs.
I
looked it up a while back and actually it is referring to
fox-bats
who are piebald various shades of light brown, reddish brown and
murky white, esp. over the face which brings out the horrible face of
this type of bat. Which makes more sense since foxes aren't known
esp. for liking grapes. God expects good grapes from the vineyards
He plants and those
who spoil the chances, peace of mind of those who are trying to use
the talents God gave them for good are really stealing from God.
------------------------------
Kris
still appears to be living here
despite my complaint to Compliance, Keith does not appear to be
making spot checks by dropping in at unexpected hours to make sure
Kris is not living here. May
31st,
7:35 pm
Kris and Pam sitting on couch laughing after large cooked dinner.
Earlier today,
11:30am
Kris' canes by couch, 4:50pm
Kris sitting on couch alone playing with cellphone, then filling out
forms on dining room table, if
Kris is a guest why
so much of the time alone, someone who stays here from early morning
until past dinnertime is not a guest but is living here. Kris and
Pam began filling our forms for HUI presumably for Kris. May
31st
8:10pm
Kris is alone at the dining room table still working on paperwork.
I
have thought that Pam's over-the-top harrassment of me was due to
trying to push me out in favor of Kris. Hard for me to clean, do
household work, or even
make a meal for myself,
though I have kept the kitchen spotless, Pam makes up absurdities to
scream at me about, feeling
frozen by all Pam's snares and harrassment.
I think that Janet
Listou,
other housemate, suffers from a type of
Stockholm Syndrome
and is terrified of consciously noticing or telling the truth because
of Pam's vindictiveness which Janet has told me she has experienced
in the past and has certainly seen the over the top screaming Pam
aims at me if I dare to use what Pam considers her kitchen or washing
machine.
I
will write down some of Pam's ridiculous 100,000 rules she has for
the kitchen which in reading about can be clearly seen to be
nonsensical and only for harrassment to get me to react angrily. And
which Pam breaks at will herself, such as leaving pans overnight and
beyond to soak or leaving pans to dry on usually a cloth towels
overnight and beyond while having a hissy fit if I do the same.
Coldly
calling me over as I was going to the bathroom and berating me for
putting
the spaghetti strainer
“in the wrong place”
when it is MY spaghetti strainer and
Pam has a multitude of catering quality culinary items, forcefully
nattering on and on at me that she had been trying to cook dinner and
COULD NOT FIND THE SPAGHETTI STRAINER TO COMPLETE HER MEAL in a voice
as if I had committed the unpardonable sin, as is her usual tone, is
only one of the irrational shock and awe outbursts that I have
suffered from Pam. I said that I was surprised that she did not have
her own spaghetti strainer since she had so many sophisticated
culinary items. She said she did.
It
makes me shudder to talk about some of them
including early on just before Cameron came, Pam obviously told Janet
to come out and scream at me that there was “sh-t” all over the
bathroom and I had better clean it up. I ran towards the two
bathrooms which are near each other and Janet pointed to a smear of
defecation on the toilet seat of the bathroom that she and Pam and
presumable Kris use, I
use the other bathroom.
The timing was very suspicious because Cameron walked in a few
seconds later and Pam screamed and screamed for him to look at the
smear of defecation and was immediately sure that I had done it.
Cameron
walked away from Pam's hissy fit tantrum when
it was still ongoing,
went to sit at the table while Pam screamed
and screamed and screamed irrational
accusations at me, Cameron
said it was the type of thing that housemates must work out for
themselves.
When I could speak, after the shock of ANOTHER of Pam's blitzkrieg
attacks, and Pam leaning over the dining table Cameron's back to
almost in my face I
stated several times to be heard over Pam's
hysterical continued screaming accusations aimed at me,
that I had not used that
bathroom
for at least two months, Pam made skeptical sounds and continued
screaming
at me, rushing over to the table to get close to me, I went and got
my Bible, put my hand on it and said “Before
God, I have not used or been in THAT bathroom for at least two
months.”
Pam made skeptical noises but finally calmed a bit and I walked away.
At
that time I thought Kris needed to use her two tall canes in the
house more than was later apparent. Kris was sitting on the couch, I
did not want to embarrass Kris but all
the while Pam was screaming at me based
on no evidence
that it was me,
I thought of mentioning that someone with two canes might have
trouble standing up from the toilet and might be more obviously
responsible for the smear of defecation.
Later
Janet came out back and said that Pam made her clean it up. Due
to previous and subsequent absurd accusations, beratings the
timing of this event just before Cameron was scheduled to come for
meds is now suspicious to me.
Kris
has not been vetted or approved to live in this house, there are only
3 bedrooms, so
what was Kris doing attending early house meetings to offer her
cheering section for Pam's attacks on me???
When I spoke with Keith 2 weeks ago, he emphasized that Kris would
not be allowed to attend the house meeting when the RULES FOR GUESTS
were discussed so Keith must have been aware that this had gone on.
Only later did Kris begin hiding out in Pam's room during the
morning and evening
medication monitoring.
Living
with an abusive person creates havoc with anyone trying to function
much less work
on art and doing the selecting, sorting and other things to prepare
for my hour weekly meetings with my job coach, we are setting things
up so I can sell my paintings, pastels and computer graphics online
and this takes my full attention---
never knowing what Pam will pull next so she can have an excuse for a
screaming fit accusing me of any nonsensical thing that comes into
her head.
Pam
refuses to enter the job program when I suggested that with her
cooking skills and professional culinary equipment she could work as
a caterer as one man in Voc
Rehab
already does, Pam said she never knows when she will be in pain so
can't make the commitment but Pam does nothing but shop and stay
around the house with Chris 14 or more hours a day, including
weekends and does not attend any of the Foundational Skills classes
or programs. Pam certainly needs to be in and ANGER MANAGEMENT class
and she
needs to do more with her days than eat and shop and torment me
and try to turn my housemate and the medication staff against me.
Cameron
does not know how to handle Pam's irrational accusations and
screaming hysteria in house meetings and neither do I or apparently
Keith, teamwork in a situation like this must include the authority
and investigatory power of the Compliance Officer. It is not fair to
leave clients alone to duke it out with an irrational and
increasingly abusive bully and troublemaker.
U
No
liar can ever enter the Kingdom of God.
Outside
the City of God are murderers and he
who maketh and loveth a lie.
Thou
shalt not bear false witness
against thy neighbor.
“The
TRUTH will set you free.”
“Satan
was a liar from the first and the father of it.”
“Satan
is only come to kill and steal and destroy
I
am come that you might have life and
have
it more abundantly.”
The Lord Jesus Christ.
Matthew
12:36
But
I say unto you,
That
every idle word that men shall speak,
they
shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
Proverbs
Those who love silver
will not be content with silver
U
May
29th - 7:14pm Kris
here
came out back with Pam to smoke.
If
a troublemaker like Pam who
loves an audience
and shouting
hissy fits ongoing over-the-top dramatics to get her way
was
forced to write down all her objections to what a housemate is doing
in the kitchen even
she might be forced to acknowledge the absurdity of her harrassment
and
would be denied some of the pleasure of a forced audience and wearing
them down with her shouting so she gets to continue her 100,000
absurd, nonsensical irrational kitchen rules which Pam violates at
will.
I
wish that I'd had a cellphone to record the sound of Pam's screaming
and beratings. Her parents must have treated her like that but it is
not fair to clients who have their own issues to allow Pam to use
them as a scapegoat for their raging anger at their past history.
Pam
Gureon basically
declared all
out war on me
as soon as she moved in, for
a time she would put out feelers when she was being friendly if
I would turn on
my other housemate, Janet
Listou even
before the following, -- for
a while
Janet was falling down, she
no longer is
after
physical therapy and treatment for a urinary infection.
Pam
would repeated state that Janet Listou, legal resident, did
not belong here,
that
Pam could not help Janet up – she said this in front of Janet while
Janet would be laying on the kitchen floor, and repeatedly stated
this to me. Obviously Pam decided to push me out first, but when an
“opportunity” presented itself was glad to try to push out Janet
so Pam's friend Kris could move in here.
Janet
after Keith said the same thing to her is terrified of losing her
housing due to her PREVIOUS problem of falling,
when I told her a few days ago briefly that I had filed a complaint
about Pam, the first thing Janet asked was whether I had mentioned
her falling, Pam is an expert at pushing buttons and is constantly
searching for them in her few attempts to be friendly, when Pam
found out that despite her successful attempts to turn Janet against
me about cleaning since I have felt frozen due to the screaming
out-of-control hate in the meeting with Keith and Nicole when Pam had
been living here less than two weeks, and in all the house meetings
which Cameron stopped having due to her irrational and hate-filled
accusations.
It
is impossible to answer someone who is accusing you of spilling water
when replacing ice cube tray, in the meeting with Keith I said that
Pam
filled the freezer so full that it was impossible for me to use,
heavy chunks of meat, her personal ice trays, and on and on slide
over as I attempt to put the ice trays back,
I only ever have a package of frozen blueberries and the two ice
trays, Pam has a towel on the floor under the refrigerator door but
in Pam's tirades to her RC and to Keith on the phone, Pam fails to
mention how she sets me up and the overfilled freezer is one example.
Just
before
finished writing the complaint to Compliance Officer the most
“violent”
of Pam’s increasing attacks on my using “her”
kitchen
screaming
in my ear almost stepping on my feet not to get ice on her
paper
towels
– Pam sometimes puts pans washed by hand on a CLOTH when I do she
denies my right to do so.
I
have only seen Pam use paper towels this once a few days ago, she
cleaned out the silverware drawer, the dishwasher was filled with
half the silverware and Pam used the
very tiny counter space
to place the silverware on the
evening before
so the silverware on the paper towels had been there for
over 12 hours blocking
use of the tiny counterspace,
Kris
was here
sitting
on the couch watching and Janet jumped up and ran over, when
I tried to get some ice on the counter near stove.
Pam
had removed almost all the silverware from the EVENING BEFORE there
were only 3 or 4 pieces and had removed one of the paper towels and I
was trying to use this small space in between her paper towels and
ran over to me
screaming and screaming not to get ice on the paper towels.
I
had recently decided that someone who speaks or screams at me with
such disrespect over nonsensical rules does not deserve my trying to
find an answer to her
every day irrational accusations almost
always regarding the kitchen that she claims as her own or the
washing machine if she thinks that I am using it too much on FREE
DAYS or if she thinks the washer is unbalanced, but this washing
machine makes a tremendous amount of noise at all times, screamed
in a voice as if I had burned down the whole world.
Pam
making me her scapegoat for Pam's immense
rage
has been frightening. Or if any speck of ice had (possibly,
potentially)
gotten on her ordinary paper towels was like my pouring hot chocolate
on her gold satin dress. Ridiculous,
Absurd, Nonsensical, Irrational
– a deliberate technique so that it is near impossible to find
anything to say to screamed accusations so utterly, utterly
irrational.
5-24
5:30pm noticed
when made coffee Kris
and Pam
on couch close together laughing a few minutes later walked around
corner to go to bathroom, Janet
asked snarkily to “be
sure to write down on my calendar the time that Kris was here”,
Rarely is Janet snarky to me we had a good relationship before Pam
came and even
since
except when coached by Pam to insult me or get some information, the
kitchen, dining space and most of the living-room is one rectangle,
there is a small L shape space to the living room where Janet sits in
the easy chair, she could not have seen me look at the clock over the
stove.
Sent
this complaint as an attachment to Compliance
Officer Marisa
Gillum
with
copies to my
psychiatrist Dr.
Parveen,
therapist
Paula Weiss.
Could not dial 1 to talk to Ms.
Gillum she
has not called back, called Suzanne
Loftjelm
of Senator
Van Hollen's
office with brief synopsis and request that she call the Compliance
Officer to make an appointment to talk about this unbearable
situation as soon as possible. Called after I
called Nicole Briscoe, my RC and requested that she take me to the
Bel Pre office to make calls to my therapist and Ms. Gillum on a real
phone, Ms. Briscoe refused
and said she would talk to Keith tomorrow, he would call me and they
would consult Keith's boss Nicole
Burke
who has let situations slide and slide in the past and I wrote about
the damage done by this refusal to supervise Keith and sent it to
then-Congressman Van Hollen.
Kris
was
here from
early afternoon til now 8pm on
May 22nd
she was helping bring in Pam's mountain
of groceries no
room for my ice trays which is the only thing I have in the freezer.
Pam cooked dinner, KRIS
AGAIN HID OUT IN PAM'S ROOM OR
TOOK A LONG WALK WHILE THE
HOUSE PERSON CAMERON
DID MEDS, THEN KRIS CAME OUT HIDING and Pam
and Kris
are now having dinner.
This
house is too small for an unofficial illegal 4th
resident.
Pam
tried to pick fights twice today, about not put ice tray on the paper
towels she had laid out, she had thrown one paper towel away and I
was getting the ice on the counter not
her
laid out paper towels.
I
asked Cameron in his capacity as house person to look at what was the
linen closet
before Pam threw away all the linens belonging to the house now
stuffed full of Pam's food and culinary items and reminded
him that I had told him months ago that Pam had thrown away every
stitch of the household linens
that belong in
the linen closet,
I had asked Nicole Briscoe to have Pam replace the household linens
to no avail – Kris
had been hiding in Pam's room
while Cameron was here, shortly after he left Pam
and Kris
would sitting on couch when Pam
shouted at me about showing Cameron her stuff in the linen closet as
I was coming out of the bathroom but
I just walked away. Instead of rushing up to me to insult me stayed
on couch with Kris.
I
have to pass by the couch with Pam
and Kris
to use the bathroom and I am tired of her girl gang shouting and
accusing me of absurdities.
Jesus
had a lot to say about those who steal the homes of the widow and the
orphan.
The
Old Testament as well.
Throughout
the Bible God states that the Truth is very important to Him.
Jesus
said that He was THE TRUTH
One
of the commandments on loving your neighbor and God is THOU SHALT NOT
BEAR FALSE WITNESS
.
No
LIAR will ever enter the Kingdom of Heaven.
Satan
was a liar from the first and the father of it.
Satan
is known as the father of lies.
Near
the end of the Bible in the Book of Revelations, God states that
along with murderers,
he
who makes and loves a lie will be outside the City of God forever.
PAM
GUREON
AND KRIS
home
phone
only occasionally works
301
942-8185
Cellphone
Nicole lent to Valleywood house difficult to work
202
641-5406
Dear
Ms. Gillum,
This
is a preliminary report/complaint about housemate
Pam Gureon's
bullying harrassment and
letting her very close friend Kris essentially illegally live here at
12902 Valleywood Drive for at
least
half the month, month after month.
I am asking for some relief from the confusion and over-the-top
bullying behaviour.
I
want to concentrate on my art, graphics and selling prints online and
spend hours each day on it. Pam does nothing constructive and is
constantly aggressive seeing how much she can get away with. I need
help in gaining relief from this harassment and Pam
needs something worthwhile to do besides spending incredible
amounts of money on clothes, household and food items including
expensive mail order and
loudly partying with her friend Kris
who does
not pay rent
and
has
not been approved to live on Cornerstone property at this address but
stays from early light to 10pm and
beyond
day after day.
Pam does not participate in any of the Southport or other Cornerstone Rehabilitation programs.
Pam does not participate in any of the Southport or other Cornerstone Rehabilitation programs.
I
have a job coach and am trying to do something useful with my life
but need help with an aggressive, conscience-free housemate with
outrageous arrogancy in breaking all the rules she can both
Cornerstone household rules, Residential
licensing rules and
the rules of human decency. I should not have to CONTINUE to deal
with this alone.
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I
REALLY think someone should look into Pam
Gueron's
hidden
sources of finances.
Her very
conspicuous consumption is really over the top. I would estimate Pam
spends well over a thousand a month on luxuries. More details below.
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For
quality assurance, clients
should have to sign off on how often they meet with their RCs, sit
down meetings. Except for today, May 19, since early last autumn, I
have only had 2 sit down meetings with Nicole
Briscoe.
The
second one
very
abbreviated.
Even
when Pam was here on probation, she
was throwing away things that belong to the house like mops and
brooms,
saying they were too old. Neither
Janet or I were consulted as to whether
we approved of Pam as a potential housemate after the trial period,
per protocols, I
would have mentioned the throwing away of things that did not belong
to Pam and the arrogance of it and requested that Keith keep a close
watch. Shortly
after Pam moved in she started throwing away MY FOOD without asking
me.
She lied and said the food was old and black, and I said in the
meeting with Nicole and Keith, that
they were not and I could not prove it because
Pam had thrown
them away.
I
lived with Janet for about three months before Pam moved in and Janet
would never ever have
thought of throwing away my food, she confessed to throwing away my
lettuce saying it was black, I said that I had only bought the
lettuce the previous week both Pam and Janet kept repeating my
food that they had thrown away,
never consulting me
or showing the RCs,
was black.
The
meeting was contentious and both
Nicole and Keith should have kept up with protecting me from further
aggression
esp. since our
house phone does
not work
most of the time for more than a year
and we have only had Nicole's cellphone for about a month and that
too seemed not to be working.
5-18
Nicole
Briscoe forgot
to cancel appt with Dr.
Polam
for the results of endoscopsies.
If
I had not been without
a phone
for one year since April 2016 because Nicole refuses to meet with me
or makes promises to meet then never follows up, I could have made
the appt. myself not in conflict with my 5-18 appt with Dr. Parveen.
Last Tuesday,
Shane Senior,
my job coach was surprised and said doesn't
Nicole keep up with when you have appts with your psychiatrist?
5-16
3:45pm
Kris
is here, sitting on couch with Pam laughing.
Kris
seemed,
I
never know for sure since she often comes out of Pam's
bedroom
long after I thought she had left,
to have left fairly early today
but could have been quietly in Pam's
room
and will rush out suddenly startling me, many
times I think Kris is gone and hours later she pops out
of Pam's room when on way to bathroom.
1
week ago spaghetti strainer, Pam
showing off to Kris
in criticizing me over petty things like nasty junior high students
or in a dysfunctional office setting.
2
day ago Pam
left a very nasty note on pink legal paper on the washer about the
laundry – saying she
was going out for a bit and EXPECTED when she returned that the
washing machine would be free for her to use.
This
was not Pam’s day for washing.
Later,
as soon as I came out of the bathroom Pam
with Kris
beside her was standing talking to Janet, after her release from the
hospital, and Pam in a very bullying voice asked if the washing
machine was free with Kris standing glowering at me. Pam has been
showing off to Kris who seems to be living here unofficially.
This
house is too small for four people to
be living here, one
unofficially AND NOT PAYING RENT AS I DO AND JANET.
Party atmosphere not conducive to my working or feeling secure.
Just
the traffic in the very
small
kitchen, Pam makes noisy full course meals together with Kris at
least several time a week and when
I work in the spare room on my art
very disturbing to my
concentration.
Often
they bring carry
out food from their many
shopping trips
with many
expensive items of clothes or hobby or household items along
with fairly expensive prepared food, in addition often make a full
course meal later together. When Pam sits together with Kris on the
couch, there is no privacy in the kitchen because it is all one room,
it seems that Pam is showing Kris her purchases, never vice versa.
Pam
seems to have a great
deal
of money despite
her protestations of poverty. Very expensive and extensive groceries
each week. After making me move my clothes from the coat closet, Pam
took over the linen closet, threw away all the linens without asking
anyone and
has her catering quality cooking items and extensive food stored
there in what is supposed to be shared
space as linen closet,
as well as taking up large space in the freezer and large storage box
I gave her, filled with more food with many food items on top of box.
I
have photos of the food
and culinary equipment in the linen
closet
and after my therapist Paula
Weiss
helped me to get a cellphone took
photos of the SUPPOSED
SHARED SPACE LINEN closet
which I showed to Nicole in one of the few meetings that I have had
with Nicole Briscoe since last fall.
This
meeting was about two weeks after the meeting with Keith and Nicole
over Pam
throwing away MY FOOD,
I asked to meet with Nicole privately and she drove her car a half a
block away and asked if it was really important to me that
Pam had thrown away
ALL
of the Valleywood household linens and Pam was
using the linen closet to store her food and culinary equipment.
Thereafter, Nicole did her best to avoid me, and in the one meeting
I insisted on about 2 ½ months ago Nicole stayed for less than 5
minutes brushed off my requests to help with a replacement phone that
I lost in a cab after spending hours in the library uploading my
paintings and computer graphics.
When
I spoke of it,
Janet told
me that ALL the linens in the LINEN CLOSET “were
rags.”
Apparently she was quoting Pam.
The household linens were NOT rags, they were not brand new but were
like the linens in the LINEN closets in the townhouses but apparently
Nicole and Keith and the house person Cameron
who I also told
before
the linens were thrown out but still in the garbage bag along with
other garbage bags of items left behind by previous clients in the
coat closet
accepted that every
stitch
of the HOUSEHOLD LINENS were okay for Pam to throw out to make room
for her stuff in the LINEN closet just because Pam claimed
they were rags. Pam
should have to go to thrift stores to replace the Cornerstone
PROPERTY she threw away and
to vacate the LINEN closet she took over. Pam
seems to have way too much money to be living in subsidized housing
and a rich person's outlook to
live in housing meant for those trying to struggle out of poverty.
For
a while Pam
was repeatedly
putting sacks of flour and other things on the box I use to store
food,
I need to go into box several times a day due to a field mouse
sometimes coming inside, my bread and cereal is in there which
I told Pam,
I would place the
eggs, boxes of butter and cream cheese, bags of flour and sugar et al
belonging
to Pam
that she repeatedly
put on my food box, on the dining room table one
foot away
from my food box–though
I asked her repeatedly to stop.
When
she put her large
expensive new-looking laptop on
my food box, it
was charging and the outlet was by the dining table leg and CLOSER
that Pam irrationally charging her new laptop on my foodbox,
I didn't want to touch the laptop and possibly be accused of breaking
it so I
took a photo,
Janet saw me and later said, “Pam
feels just
terrible
that she forgot about not
putting
things on your box.” this
after several weeks of requesting that she stop
piling things on top of my food box. No previous apology.
Just
why
would
Pam need to put her
laptop on my
food box when there is a dining room table
WITH chairs about a foot away????? even closer to the outlet for
charging???
Constant,
constant HARASSMENT
– more “petty”
incidents
than I can possibly mention, always testing me to see my response and
how much she can get away with.
By
allowing Pam not
to replace my food which she had thrown away and even more by letting
her get away with throwing away ALL the linens
that belonged to Valleywood/CORNERSTONE
PROPERTY
and TAKING OVER THE SHARED SPACE OF THE LINEN CLOSET to store her
food and culinary items in what is supposed to be shared space for
linens, Nicole gave Pam carte blanc to continue to harass me and do
anything that came into her head and Pam is still ratcheting up her
harassment to prove she can get away with anything she wants.
Pam
is a very
intimidating person, very intelligent, very savvy and goes between
charming and giving away elaborate cookies and deserts and
extreme
aggression. Apparently
Keith
and Nicole have not wanted to deal with her but I am supposed to have
sit down meetings with my RC on a regular basis, that
is why there is so much backed up stuff,
and if Pam was arrogant at first in throwing things away that did not
belong to her she is unbearable now that she thinks she can do
anything, anything she wants.
Nicole
has taken me to the surgeon but has
me sit in the back seat
and is obviously not interested in discussing anything, even medical
and I have been too anxious about the hernia surgery I need to force
talk about Pam's harassment and apparently live-in friend on those
occasions plus I am tired of being snubbed or sloughed off and I
think my
job coach
Shane
Senior is
as well as Vanessa
was
before him. I have a camera now for my work but my PC is broken and
my laptop is struggling.
I
could save the money to get another laptop at Phoenix
but
as with Vanessa, my new job coach is very unhappy about being told
that everything is his responsibility not Nicole's and I am tired of
doing without and my job coaches telling me every week it is my RCs
responsibility and I am
batted back and forth like a ping pong ball and nothing ever gets
done.
I need only 3 or so things for selling my art, I need paperwork from
an RC to do the things needed for my art business and this has gone
on far too long.
Marissa,
when you came for the pre-inspection I told you that I
needed to talk with you
about
some problems
and you gave me your card,
I knew that it would be wasted effort to continue to try to meet with
Nicole or to get Keith to do anything but I have felt too sick and
exhausted to try to write up the constant jibs and other things
especially with
Pam
and Kris
constantly here
and Pam testing to see how much she can get away with and no phone
except for one month and trying to get Nicole to meet with me, I am
intimidated by Pam as well and thought
I had to get used to having a
fourth person
living here,
did not feel up to writing or fighting for things that should be the
responsibility of Bel
Pre
staff and supervisor TO KEEP UP WITH these problems that were
obviously just going to get worse and to help me handle.
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Much,
much more money and shopping trips and expensive meats and meals for
two and large
boxes and boxes of canned cola
stacked up and boxes always falling over, so hard to pull out chair
for meds.
Did
Pam give Kris a key to our house?
Fairly
often see Kris early
in the morning,
recently when Janet was in the hospital about two weeks ago, Kris
was again
playing
with her cellphone on our
small couch it was very
early in the morning,
just after light
and
Pam's door was half open, and Kris
said she
guessed she was going to have to wake Pam up, it didn't look like she
was going to get up on her own.
Kris
using
Valleywood
property
as her rightful home has become so engrained she forgot to try to be
discreet and stay hidden as much as possible during off hours.
I
had thought before that Kris was staying overnight
because often esp. in evening when thought Kris had left, she would
rush out of Pam's room and often
is here very, very early in
the morning, having a cigarette in the back yard or sitting on couch
and
I didn't let her in so
how did Kris get in the house?
Kris often stays til 9 or 10 pm at night and sometimes it seems
overnight. The bathroom I use is next to Pam's bedroom door and am
shocked that Kris is still there and almost run into her when I leave
the bathroom.
When
Janet came home from the hospital 2 weeks ago, I
asked if
she thought that Kris stayed overnight
and
Janet said no,
she
just comes very
early
in the morning
but Kris also stays often until dinnertime and
beyond.
Kris
and Pam
again ordered pizza tonight, three large boxes and several boxes of
other items from pizza place though Janet was eating some of the
pizza, Kris
and Pam
ordered pizza last week when Janet was in hospital, the money Pam has
is incredible.
Several
times a week, around dinnertime, a party atmosphere, sometimes
earlier, other times on the same day, they retreat to Pam's room and
stay hours and hours, sometimes Kris takes her crutches and bag in
Pam's room, other times leaves them by couch because they realize the
med people
won't notice them. Kris apparently needs the very tall canes to get
from the car to the house but doesn't use them in the house, seems to
walk comfortably without them, Kris is very tall with a deep voice so
it is a shock when I come out of bathroom to almost run into her
rushing
out of Pam's bedroom at all hours when
I thought Kris had left for the day.
For
a long time I have thought that Kris
is an unofficial 3rd
housemate.
Adds to confusion and this
house is too small for 4 people
and I never know what to expect from the two of them. The
house at 12902
Valleywood Drive
is certified/licensed for 3 people to be living here, not four.
I
will start keeping a record of how many days per week Kris is here
and how long she stays.
2
days ago I noticed that Kris went in Pam's room just before meds I
usually notice Kris coming out of Pam's room after
the meds person leaves,
don't see her going in, Kris hiding out in Pam's room at med time
shows they both know what they are doing is wrong.
The
medication monitoring staff should be alert to Kris' presence so very
often. They are so comfortably with Kris practically or essentially
living here that Kris often forgets to take her canes, jacket and bag
into Pam's bedroom while meds people are here. Medication people
need to be alert and aware of the signs of another person living her
or
staying from
morning
meds
until evening
meds
day
after day.
Rules
regarding “guests”
need to be upheld.
5-17
2pm
Kris
and Pam
watching TV laughing on couch
5:30pm
Kris'
canes and bag by couch, Pam's door is shut.
7:45PM
After meds person leaves, Pam
and Kris
making large dinner in small kitchen.
Pam
has been doing laundry all day, though she usually has expensive
very large laundry bags in pretty colors and fabric which
is why I noticed them and doesn't throw her laundry on the floor,
there have been several huge piles of clothes on
the floor in
front of the washer,
one very big pile at a time but the all day the clothes are
constantly changing, does
she do Kris' laundry here as well?
Is
Kris living here unofficially?
Been
noticing for more than a week when I turn corner to go into the
bathroom, many, many clothes hanging on Pam's closet door and knobs
and draped over dresser in Pam’s bedroom, now piles of clothes on
the floor by the washer.
8:43pm
Pam
and Kris
laughing and talking on couch which faces
the tiny kitchen,
I feel uncomfortable trying to make my dinner and hard to concentrate
in the constant party-type atmosphere. And
not knowing what “unpleasant,
critical”
remark Pam
will come up to me
to make to show off to her friend while
I am trying to concentrate
on cooking MY
dinner.
When
Kris finally left
after 10 pm while waiting for her cab or ride, there was a huge black
square shaped cloth suitcase,
and another large bag that made Kris's knapsack look very small, Pam
ran the washer/dryer all day with varying huge piles of clothes. I
had only noticed Kris leaving
once
before, a few months ago, and I believe the same
suitcase
was there while Kris was calling for her taxi.
Pam
had been complaining about my using the washer too much in a very
insulting overbearing fashion.
Is
it because Pam has reached the point of arrogancy that she denies a
legal resident adequate use of the washer/dryer on free days that is
LEGALLY mine to use for MY clothes????
I
don't think the Compliance Officer can be bribed by Pam giving her
homemade elaborate cookies or other deserts.
I
got very upset when Pam was passing a HUGE cookie sheet with desert
to
Ellen,
medication monitoring person, over
my head,
there is enough room at the dining table for
Pam to have placed the tray on Ellen's right
instead of passing it over MY HEAD, when I was sitting at the table
and after Ellen spending a quite a bit of time talking to Pam, she
continued talking to Ellen about the recipe and exotic items she puts
in the cookies, it was my turn for Ellen's
undivided attention
while I was supposed to be doing medication
monitoring. Not
the only time that Pam would continue to try to charm and talk to med
person when they should have been concentrating on MY medication.
The
Compliance Officer answers to the County Council and other funders
who have specified this house if for THREE residents not FOUR.
And
Kris should not be bagging
Nourish Now food
when Nicole Briscoe is telling
me
not to take so much food. I had only put two items in my bag and
Kris
and Pam, together
again,
were filling their bags to the top. It seems when Kris finally went
home 2 or 3 days later, Pam packed up the two huge boxes of
strawberries and other items for Kris to take home. If Kris is in
the program at Cornerstone
she still does not live in this house officially or legally.
My
other housemate Janet
is alternately intimidated,
influenced (arm-twisted)
and bribed with food and attention
when Pam wants something otherwise
Kris
and Pam
ignore
her and have seen Janet sitting woebegone at her living room chair
staring into space instead of watching the TV as she always does as
Kris
and Pam
party on the couch and eat and eat and eat.
Janet
has mentioned being very angry at Pam over some of the things she has
done to her but Janet
always asks me not
to mention it to anyone,
obviously because she doesn't want the full force of the “TREATMENT”
that Pam directs at me.
If
Janet is interviewed to verify what I have written, it should not
be
with Pam in the house, even then I don't know if Janet will feel free
to speak but she has some bitter feelings to Pam. However, since both
Janet and Pam heard what I said to Nicole about these things when I
met with her on 5-19,
just afterward Pam has been cozening up to Janet, watching TV with
her and acting like her best friend which I haven't seen in a while.
I
REALLY think someone should look into Pam
Gueron's
hidden
sources of finances.
Her very
conspicuous consumption is really over the top. I estimate Pam
spends well over $1,000 a month on luxury items. Each week in
addition to very
expensive
large amounts of groceries, large packages of meat, all kinds of
baking goods, and more and more she makes huge meals and the garbage
bags are much heavier than used to be, I think she wastes a
tremendous amount of this food, this is in addition to the Nourish
Now
which Pam has just
started
receiving, the
meat from Food Pantries are packaged much differently from Giant
Foods and
the large packages of supermarket meats Pam cooks almost every day,
more than even 2 people could eat.
I
can barely afford to eat without buying meat, or buy batteries for
camera, NO
ONE I have seen at Cornerstone has anywhere near this kind of money,
they might buy some
luxury items like make up from an Avon-type lady, Gerda or Melissa
Willard worked and would buy expensive clothes but not extremely
luxurious items several
times a week, every single week, week after week and MONTH AFTER
MONTH.
Pam
and Kris
go shopping for clothes and more clothes, household items, pillows
etc, quilting frames other crafts in new bags and several
times a week
they sit on couch and it
seems to be Pam showing Kris her purchases and sometimes Pam shows
the RCs.
I used to think Pam was getting all this money from Kris but it is
so much it seems that Pam has an extremely large source of money.
In
addition to their continual
shopping sprees for luxury items at
least twice a week, often three times a week bringing
home prepared food from restaurants and so on as well as expensive
groceries that I have never seen another client buy anything like it,
just talking about the food costs.
Pam
receives mail
order
packages of expensive clothes about once a week, week after week
month after month.
With the Patriot Act and other banking information Acts it should be
easy to find out Pam's hidden
financial sources which seem to be substantial
and to see if she is paying enough for rent and other services.
There are so many people who really NEED subsidized housing.
Or
if she qualifies for subsidized housing, I thought Cornerstone was
for low income, Pam does not work, it seems some of the money that
she spends every week on luxury items could go to rent an apartment
for
Pam and Kris
so they could live together legally and privately BOTH paying rent
instead of trying to push out current residents who really need the
Cornerstone
Residential Program
so Pam
and Kris can
live together in privacy at the taxpayers' expense. Pam just got a
2nd
batch of her expensive items she owned previous to her stay at the
homeless shelter from storage. Some people enter homeless shelters
briefly to get social workers to obtain housing when they have more
than enough money to pay rent.
I
have often wondered why Pam never stays overnight or has dinner at or
comes back from shopping to
Kris' house
but I think that other people living with Kris might object to
another
person not paying rent staying from early light to 10pm and beyond
even
occasionally much less the constant,
constant presence of Kris
in this Cornerstone
property.
Possibly
Kris lives in a homeless shelter, Pam
said she herself moved here from a shelter.
When she first told me that after she had been here a few weeks I
thought it was amazing that Pam would be so
arrogant just after receiving the gift of housing --throwing away the
Valleywood property of 2 mops and a broom on
HER FIRST DAY HERE and going on to throw away my food a short time
later with the lame and lying excuse that it was black, not showing
it to the RCs and I couldn't because
my food was gone
and
suborning Janet to throw away my week old lettuce and to back Pam up
by saying the thrown away food was black, lettuce goes brown not
black and the cauliflower was not black or that old
nor could I prove it
because it was GONE.
I
kept reaching into the refrigerator and finding MY food missing,
since Pam was using my shelf at that time hard to see. Once again
Pam has begun storing so much food it the freezer I cannot store my
food and her food keeps falling over on the ice trays, then to the
floor but this time, so far, not on my head as it was doing. The food
she is stuffing in the refrigerator is about to start falling on my
feet again when I open the door. She used to scream and scream at me
to open the refrigerator door gently so her food on the door with a
broken rod did not fall out but until the rod was fixed it did not
matter how gently I opened the door, Pam's food would still fall out
along with the broken rod on the refrigerator door.
I
don't know if Pam was in a war without sufficient food but I
have never seen so much food
even living with my mother, father and brother.
As
I said, Pam
does not work or participate in any of the Cornerstone Rehab
programs,
she just tries to prevent my working by her nasty comments and snares
and the commotion of essentially having a 3rd
roommate, 4 people in a house certified for 3.
Pam
has asked Janet and I to shut the door when we go out to smoke
because it bothers her, but
when her friend Kris goes
out to smoke Pam
often
goes with her and stands very
close to
Kris,
Kris' smoke obviously does not bother Pam. In the early morning Kris
goes out to smoke alone before Pam wakes up. Hard
for me to find privacy.
When
she first moved in Pam offered again and again to make any food Janet
or I wanted but when I offered to purchase the food for meals
with food stamps
apparently
Pam just wanted cash and I declined again
and again.
There is more to this story but Janet asked me not to tell anyone
when she used to complain to me about the things Pam was doing to
her.
Either
at the meeting with Keith and Nicole or an
early
meeting with Cameron, Pam
said emphatically, “I
am not trying to push you out.”
that surprised me because I had not said or implied that and seemed
incongruous to what was being talked about.
“Out
of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh.” Proverbs
I
think from the above abbreviated
report
of Pam's
harrassment that it seems very likely that she
is/has been
trying to push me out to make room for her friend Kris.
If Pam is allowed to “push me out” she
will go after Janet next or ANY other person living here
so that PAM
AND KRIS can
take
possession of this HUD house.
At
the expense of people who really
need
the program and at the expense of taxpayers and other funders who
believe their money is going to help people who really need it and
who try to contribute something.
Pam has tried to turn me against Janet when she was very ill and
falling due to a urinary infection saying again and again that Janet
“didn't
belong here.”
Some
people go into homeless shelters briefly to get housing when they
don't REALLY need it with Pam's
constant displays of her wealth,
I believe that there needs to be a
financial investigation as well. I
would estimate that Pam
Gureon, housemate,
spends $1,000 to $1,500 on luxury items EACH MONTH about 3 times a
week, week after week, month after month for about the 6 months she
has been here.
Cameron,
Bel Pre house person,
only shows up to have us sign off on the weekly paperwork and in a
way I don't blame him, in the first 3 real
house meetings Pam
would scream and accuse me of all sorts of ridiculous petty things
and get hysterical and blaming me for petty things that she made
sound like I caused the end of the world which would continue after
Cameron left and I would usually just walk away or tell her that I
would be making a complaint to the Compliance Officer, hard
to know what to say when someone is so irrationally accusing you of
nonsensical or petty things esp. when she has an audience.
Hard
to get a handle on describing
these things because they are so
irrational,
I believe now that it is and has been part of her agenda, she
will not stop and is very forceful and like a bulldog.
From the first I refused to argue with her and would tell her she
could speak to the
Compliance Officer after
I filed a complaint and I wish so much that I had not waited so long,
I tried very hard to get along with Pam and regret the time I wasted
in suffering so much. I was not AWARE from the beginning what Pam's
game plan was and neither did Cameron or Nicole and probably Keith,
but they left me utterly alone to deal with this
wild abuse.
If
there is any way to give my other housemate Janet
Listou protection
from Pam Gureon's wrath, Janet has to live here 24/7 and Pam
is extremely vindictive
so that Janet can testify honestly
to
Pam and Kris
cohabiting more than half of each month and the bullying the Janet
has received from Pam, I would ask that it be done.
When
I told Nicole Briscoe some of this, esp. about Kris living here
illegally, on May 19th
Nicole
kept saying she didn't keep up with house issues
and that it
was Cameron's responsibility,
as with my job coach,
Keith
does not work
as a team
but plays the blame game which allows for terrible problems and
suffering for real client/patients. Most especially when a RAVENOUS
WOLF in sheep's clothing like Pam
Gueron has
been allowed into the
Cornerstone Residential Program.
Jesus
said to His disciples,
“I send you out as lambs among RAVENING wolves. Be ye therefore as
Wise as serpents and as harmless as doves.”
Some
people think kindness is weakness.
I
am still working on the
WISE as serpents part.
Marisa,
I
ask for your help in ending this harrassment so that I can have peace
of mind to work on my art and to work with my job coach and to reduce
the crowding in this house.
Thank
you.
Linda
Leonard
U
The
Holy Spirit through
Jesus
Christ has
washed over us,
And
our gracious and holy God beckons and blesses us.
Drink
deeply of these living
waters
U
There
will be a reckoning.
–-----------------
Vision of the Valley
Don Francisco, 1991
the vision came unbidden
at an unexpected pass
where the winds of change blew colder
whipping snow that cut like glass
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Vision of the Valley
Don Francisco, 1991
the vision came unbidden
at an unexpected pass
where the winds of change blew colder
whipping snow that cut like glass
but
like an old man in regret
for foolish sins and wasted youth
the scene that lay before me
had no beauty save its truth
for foolish sins and wasted youth
the scene that lay before me
had no beauty save its truth
for
the wind came down the mountain
never slowing never still
and the sheep were scattered shepherdless
alone across the hills
never slowing never still
and the sheep were scattered shepherdless
alone across the hills
they
were prey to ever beast that roamed
and entrapped by every curse
and they stumbled in their sickness
in their weakness and their thirst
below them in the valley
the polluted waters flowed
where the shepherds that were hirelings
and argued what was owed
and entrapped by every curse
and they stumbled in their sickness
in their weakness and their thirst
below them in the valley
the polluted waters flowed
where the shepherds that were hirelings
and argued what was owed
the
ambitious and abusive bragged
and they boasted on their might
and the profits from the slaughter
of the ones who could not fight
and the wind just kept on howling
as i cried oh Lord how long
will your people be the victims
of the ruthless proud and strong?
and they boasted on their might
and the profits from the slaughter
of the ones who could not fight
and the wind just kept on howling
as i cried oh Lord how long
will your people be the victims
of the ruthless proud and strong?
and
at once there came an answer
in the quiet of my soul
the time has come for judgment
and to make the wounded whole
for my heart is still a shepherd's heart
i know each one by name
the ragged and the beautiful
the healthy and the lame
in the quiet of my soul
the time has come for judgment
and to make the wounded whole
for my heart is still a shepherd's heart
i know each one by name
the ragged and the beautiful
the healthy and the lame
and
i myself will lead them out
and I’ll feed them on the best
in pastures by still waters
in a place of peace and rest
oh but woe unto the shepherds
who abuse my sheep and kill
with harshness and severity
you've bent them to your will
and I’ll feed them on the best
in pastures by still waters
in a place of peace and rest
oh but woe unto the shepherds
who abuse my sheep and kill
with harshness and severity
you've bent them to your will
and
today i am against you
as i take them from your hand
when the fire of judgment comes
the stubble will not stand
and darkness filled the valley
and i saw it take up form
screaming winds and fire and lightning
more than any earthly storm
as i take them from your hand
when the fire of judgment comes
the stubble will not stand
and darkness filled the valley
and i saw it take up form
screaming winds and fire and lightning
more than any earthly storm
where
it passed were no survivors
for the land was cleansed and bare
but the streams flowed clear and purified
and the grass grew green and fair
i saw a man come walking
and his heart glowed like a flame
all the sheep began to run to him
he called each one by name
for the land was cleansed and bare
but the streams flowed clear and purified
and the grass grew green and fair
i saw a man come walking
and his heart glowed like a flame
all the sheep began to run to him
he called each one by name
he
spoke to them in gentle words
and soothed their fearful minds
and he healed the brokenhearted
and the crippled sick and blind
and many others like him
all with hearts that glowed the same
that before i hadn't noticed
from the farms and fields they came
and soothed their fearful minds
and he healed the brokenhearted
and the crippled sick and blind
and many others like him
all with hearts that glowed the same
that before i hadn't noticed
from the farms and fields they came
they
weren't famous wise or noble
but they spoke a common word
a word the flock could recognize
and follow when they heard
he led them in green pastures
by still waters in the light
standing guard against the wolves
and other creatures of the night
but they spoke a common word
a word the flock could recognize
and follow when they heard
he led them in green pastures
by still waters in the light
standing guard against the wolves
and other creatures of the night
going
out into the mountains
in the darkness and the cold
bringing back the lost and wounded
to the safety of the fold
and the news went out around the world
in every street and town
that something wonderful was here
that heaven had come down
in the darkness and the cold
bringing back the lost and wounded
to the safety of the fold
and the news went out around the world
in every street and town
that something wonderful was here
that heaven had come down
and
billions gave their hearts in trust
that long had been betrayed
and the bride at last was ready
and the trumpet call was made
that long had been betrayed
and the bride at last was ready
and the trumpet call was made
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Instead
of fighting Pam from the beginning when she threw away my food and
admitted it to Nicole and Keith in the meeting screaming that it was
black and she had a right to throw it away. She never replaced my
cauliflower wh ich was the only thing I mentioned though there had
been more missing food, as they told her to though Janet replaced my
lettuce. I
did not want to get in the mess described above
but was so happy to finally have a camera and to
be learning about it the various settings and lighting and
photographing my scrolls of sequences of gymnasts of which I have
quite a few and selecting and preparing the hundreds of computer
graphics paintings to upload in sequence, and trying to write about
me work and make comments with my website url on gymnastics sites and
my
job coach Shane and I were going great guns on uploading my paintings
to various sites and working on my business plan to sell my work
online.
I did not want to get involved in the mess I've described above, I
pretty much knew I could not expect any help from Bel Pre, Pam does
nothing worthwhile but eat and eat and shopaholic and try to turn my
other housemate and the RCs against me, and bring her own (illegal)
roommate to join her girl gang, to help her in her trouble-making,
tormenting me trying to prevent me from doing something worthwhile.
I
COULD HAVE ACCOMPLISHED MUCH MORE WITHOUT THIS ONGOING HARRASSMENT.
We
have all met people who waste others time and resources that can't be
replaced.
There must be compliance with laws and rules to keep ALL clients
safe and productive. It has taken an enormous amount of time from my
artwork to write this not to mention the months of trying to work
with Pam constantly tearing me down and living with a 4th
person in a small house.
I
had to stop taking pictures of my work a few weeks ago when Pam came
in the room where I was working and started screaming about the
washer making too much noise and I rearranged the clothes around in
the washer but she was out of control screaming, like a parent,
didn't I hear it so why didn't I move the clothes before, on and on
and I felt too sick to continue and went to lie down to recover from
this out of control over the top aggressive woman. I knew I would
have to start writing about her abuse because Keith would do nothing
and essentially I have been without an RC since last autumn. Clients
should have a form to sign off on RC meetings so they are not without
any REAL help or meetings.
I
am going to try to work with Tessa's group one or two times a month,
if she will allow me to try it out before making a commitment but I
do need money for expenses with selling my prints and paintings
online and sold one painting at the Radner show with Tessa's group.
Vanessa told me that Tessa has artists in the community giving
lectures and teaching her group and when we went online to this
partnership group, one of my pastel paintings was the first art
shown. Though Tessa did not ask my permission, I was still very glad
to have my work showing anywhere. Tessa also selected the same
pastel painting in the previous years calendar.
I
am half finished with a painting that I HAD been working on of a very
famous 80's gymnast, Aurelia Dobre, who has a gymnastic studio in
Gaithersburg and I was hoping to ask her to hang it in her studio as
I did at Specs Gymnastics in Reston where I would get offers of
commission of the children who were training there.
At State-Run Homes, Abuse and Impunity - The New York Times
www.nytimes.com/2011/03/13/nyregion/13homes.html
Mar
11, 2011 · Decades after New York emptied its warehouses for the
disabled, the current network of small group
homes
operates with
scant oversight and few consequences ...
June
8 when I finished evening meds with Nila, I tried to get something
out of my
food box but
someone had placed a half full coffee cup on it, a strange choice
when the dining room table is less than 2 feet away. My food box is
about 1 ½ feet off the floor and Janet has a hard time bending down.
When
I meet with Marissa Gillum and my therapist Paula Weiss and possibly
the head of the Residential Program Nicole Burke will be there, the
most important thing to mention will be how the allowing of massive
bullying in the residences with the Rehab Counselors being given no
training in handling bullying situations or a ZERO TOLERANCE for
bullies leads to a string of problems and failures by peaceful
clients who are so anguished and messed up by bullies acting out
their issues on them and then some.
The
Vocational Rehabilitation, Job Coach Program is affected, as are
clients abilities to function and cook healthy meals and bathe much
less clean with 24/7 harrassment from UNCONTRAINED BULLIES. In a
meeting a year ago with one of the top officials at Cornerstone who
had been there less than a year and Dr. Parveen and Nicole Burke, the
official said she was trying to change the agency culture but
mentioned not specifics. The bullying problem continues and the
bully continues to get worse and worse which creates situations of
intimidation and potential for violence.
The
root problem must be addressed not just picking at the branches.
The
Bully Problem in the Residences must be addressed, it is equally or
more important than the physical maintenance of the houses. Nothing
will change until the Residential Head and other Administration
Officials institute a ZERO TOLERANCE FOR BULLIES and training for
managers and rehabilitation workers on how to handle these situations
especially at Medication Monitoring and weekly House Meetings
where bullies use staff as an audience for
their bullying one or more of their scapegoats and the
RCs and managers CLEARLY are not trained in how to handle it.
It
should not be a pass the buck situation any longer of
blaming house meeting persons or RCs or
even managers,
UPPER MANAGEMENT is responsible for setting this policy and giving
adequate training and support and the sure and immediate suspension
of bullies to try to dial back THIS TERRIBLE ONGOING PROBLEM which
has not to my knowledge
ever
been addressed and wastes
the time, effort and money of Rehab programs including Vocational
Rehabilitation.
There is a TREMENDOUS WASTE of the human potential of peaceful
clients and the money of the ones who fund the programs at
Cornerstone, Montgomery.
Bullies
are very easy to identify, the problem is in policy and training.
As
long as Cornerstone, Montgomery does not have any protocols
in place for dealing with bullies,
many quiet, diligent but low personality clients who could succeed
and be a good advertisement will continue to fail and some die, from
depression, not eating. And clinicians have a much harder road than
they would have. My life and the artwork I could have produced and
prepared for sale would have been much, much different if I had not
had to contend with outrageous bullying and no help whatever from
staff or administration.
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